There is a kind of toy that you can't play with in your hand, and that is the cloud. When children look at the cloud, it is of course not the cloud that really attracts their attention, but the "animal".

　　For no reason, a lot of white clouds became a horse. The posture of this white horse is random. It may stand or rise into the air. Is a horse really that good-looking? of course not. The good thing is change. What can a horse become? There is suspense here, it can also be said that there is a mystery.

　　I don't know who coined the term "Baiyun Canggu". He must be a hapless man with a sensitive heart. He was fainted by the unpredictable changes in the world, and he didn't know where to go. On a certain day, his "eyes in the sky" opened, and through the clouds in the sky, he saw the expression of the sky and the expression in his eyes. With a stick of incense, he understood life.

　　He sees the shortness and uncertainty of life, he sees the "quiet" of good destiny, and also sees the "movement" of fate. He "understood" all at once, and thus obtained the calmness and calmness in his life.

　　Of course, children look at the clouds just for fun, and they have a heart for visiting the zoo. Look at the "camel" and then the "horse", the "lion" and then the "bear", you see, Yunhetian's work is actually "science popularization" and "enlightenment."

　　It can also be said that when children watch the cloud, they are actually watching an open-air movie. The sky becomes the largest screen. Life changes and evolves on the screen. There is me in you, and you in me. Tianheyun is so magical, no wonder our ancestors told us over and over again: learn from nature.

　　When we observe and study nature, we are actually learning.

　　If your enlightenment teacher is nature, your life will be lucky.

　　The sales department of the company wants to hire a salesperson. For this position, the basic salary is not high and the pressure is extremely high. I interviewed a lot of job seekers. Those who are capable, don’t think they have enough money, and are unwilling to do it; I don’t want those who are incapable. In the end, a girl with good conditions is willing to stay and try, but I'm not sure if she can do it.

　　A month later, the girl came to me with the "registration application" signed by the department manager in a bright sunshine. I asked her, "This job is less expensive and more stressful. What motivates you to stay?" She said, "The working atmosphere here is very good. The colleagues in the department are willing to assist me and often encourage me; I was a bit wrong, my colleague. Also tolerate me; department managers take me to see customers and learn about business as soon as they are free. I am like a "power bank" and I am fully charged every day. Although it is a little harder, I always feel that I have the energy to do it. but also learn a lot, which I did not in the other state companies, "I laughed and said:."! there are so many around you 'charging treasure' to charge you, nice to cherish "

　　recently, a A friend called and told me that there was a "headhunter" who wanted to dig him to another company. The benefits are far better than the current company. I said, "There are better opportunities to try, but why they want to dig you, and what the people in that company are like, you have to find out." Soon, my friend told me that he decided not to go. I asked him why. He said that he took advantage of his annual leave to visit the company and found that the company’s hardware conditions were excellent, but the employees complained, jealous, indifferent, and numb. These people in the company are just like cell phones. "Power-consuming software" makes people trapped in internal friction.

　　An employee likened his colleague to a "power bank", and a friend likened the other's employee to a "power-consuming software." When choosing a job, many people value the salary. In fact, in the long run, what kind of person to work with should also be an important consideration when making a choice in the workplace.

　　If you see that the benefits of other companies are better than your own, you will blindly change jobs. After you switch jobs, you will find that the new company has a lot of negative energy, like "power-consuming software", which may consume your energy unknowingly. , Polish your edges and corners, and finally make you lose the motivation to work. Over time, you will become a "power-consuming software", and you will inevitably be eliminated and regret it's too late.

　　In the workplace, everyone likes colleagues around you like a "power bank". They go to work every day and greet you happily; if you encounter difficulties, they are willing to help you share; in order to achieve your goals, you don't care about personal gains and losses, and everyone works overtime together. Every day with enthusiasm, optimism, integrity, kindness, and like-minded people, you will be full of energy.

　　Let us stay away from those who are like "power-consuming software", and make more contact with people like "power bank", and let ourselves become a "power bank" full of positive energy, charging others when needed, Life on your own!

 　　A candle sells for 688 yuan, a "magic ritual" is priced at 2,000 yuan, and a hand-made scepter with a large palm has a discounted price of 7,200 yuan... Why can a product with a seemingly "unbelievable" price be sold for 30 yuan? Young people who are too expensive" generously donate?

　　After hitchhiking on the Internet, "metaphysics" such as constellation and divination became popular. Recently, constellation blogger Tao Baibai Sensei has gained 8 million followers in 30 days on Douyin. “Will you search Tao Baibai for me?” became a hot topic on the Internet. As of 4:50 pm on November 3, Tao Baibai Sensei has 23.52 million fans on Douyin.

　　The high popularity of "metaphysics" has also attracted capital investment. According to data from Tianyancha APP, according to incomplete statistics, there are currently about 177 companies in my country engaged in related businesses such as "constellation divination, I Ching feng shui, numerology analysis" and so on. Among them, 32 have received financing, with a total financing amount of at least 500 million yuan.

　　According to data from the mobile promotion data analysis platform "Qimai Data", as of the end of 2020, there are as many as 227 "numerology" applications in the Apple application market. Take the “Test Constellation” that ranks second in downloads in the constellation category as an example. The user group is between 16 and 28 years old, with the most concentrated being 23 years old.

　　This young man yells, "My fate is my fate," while doing online fortune-telling?

Why do young people use divination?

　　Since March this year, Wang Simin, who works in the media in Shanghai, has used WeChat to find a fortuneteller every month to remotely perform a "magic ritual" to get rid of negative energy for 380 yuan. Wang Simin provided her birth date and recent photos, and the fortuneteller completed the ceremony remotely and took pictures of her. "She just lighted a candle for me, and under the candle was my birthday horoscope. After finishing the candle, I took a picture of the candle." Wang Simin said, "The ritual can maintain'magic power'."

　　Incredibly, this comes from The mouth of a highly educated returnee. Wang Simin is 27 years old this year. He studied in a 985 university in Shanghai for his undergraduate degree and spent his master's degree in the UK. The reason for her seeking divination came from the troubles of work.

　　Last June, Wang Simin had a new job opportunity. The new job is a big platform for the media industry, but the salary is not as good as that of the company she worked for at the time. She doesn't know whether it is worth giving up the job at hand and hopping over. After repeated hesitation, she began to turn to "metaphysics".

　　Through a friend's introduction, Wang Simin met a fortune-teller. This fortune-teller is about the same age as her. The avatar is a male anime character with a scepter in a wizard robe. The circle of friends is also full of fortune-telling information. In the end, Wang Simin spent 788 yuan and started his first online online. Divination.

　　After explaining the troubles, the fortune-teller placed the tarot cards, asked Wang Simin to recite the question, and began to draw cards for divination. After waiting for more than ten minutes, the fortune-teller sent the prediction answer, analyzed Wang Simin’s personality characteristics, including the characteristics of being serious and practical, and explained that although Wang Simin’s current job is good, there is no big breakthrough. The new job will Aroused Wang Simin's enthusiasm, but in the end he did not give specific suggestions.

　　"According to her, changing and not changing are the same. There is nothing wrong with changing to a new unit. Basically, if you say it, you don't say it." After the fortune-telling, Wang Simin changed his job.

　　However, the new job was not all smooth sailing, and Wang Simin still encountered problems. Three months after joining the company, she had a quarrel with the supervisor, and the relationship between the two has been deadlocked ever since. "The supervisor always finds me after work. If he doesn't reply in time, he will be bombarded

　　by phone calls." As the conflict with the supervisor grew deeper and deeper, Wang Simin's mood became lower and lower, and he even found depression. "Every time the leader speaks, I want to jump off the 17th floor of the company." She said.

　　Wang Simin went back to the fortune-teller to do the so-called "magic ritual" to get rid of "negative energy". But obviously, this is of no use. The conflict between her and her supervisor has not been eased, and her depressed mood has not improved. For the job at hand, Wang Simin didn't know whether he would stick to it. At the same time, he gradually developed the idea of ​​leaving Shanghai and returning to his hometown.

　　“I’m actually really struggling. On the one hand, I feel that working in Shanghai is getting more and more uncomfortable. On the other hand, I’m not reconciled. I am particularly afraid of making the wrong choice.” Wang Simin asked her parents, friends, and teachers for suggestions, and encouraged her to continue to struggle in Shanghai , And some persuaded her to go back to her hometown, but they couldn't convince her. After countless nights of insomnia due to entanglement, Wang Simin finally turned to the fortuneteller.

　　The fortune-teller placed the tarot cards and asked Wang Simin to recite the questions, and then told her that life in Shanghai would take three years to get better, and she was more suitable to live in her hometown.

　　How much reference value does the fortuneteller's words have? "To be honest, I'm still very confused after listening." Wang Simin said, she was only half-believing the future predicted by the so-called fortuneteller, but she wanted an answer about the future too much.

　　This represents the mentality of some young people who are as keen on divination as Wang Simin. These young people don't just believe in the "results of divination", they also know the absurdity of superstitious divination, but why do they still turn to "metaphysics" when faced with choices?

　　Pan Xianghui, a professor at the School of Journalism of Nanjing University, analyzed in an interview with China Economic Weekly that some of the current social problems have caused confusion for some young people and made them use "fortune telling" to relieve anxiety. "From a sociological point of view, in a rapidly changing society, on the one hand, young people are indeed in a state of individual'de-embedding' brought about by social mobility, and it is difficult for a while to gain a sense of belonging and value; on the other hand, time efficiency And the high degree of uncertainty easily makes them feel anxious, and they cannot find their own meaning and the value of struggle. Obviously,'fortune-telling' cannot solve their inner confusion and confusion, but it can have a psychological comfort effect to a certain extent. Temporarily relieve tension and anxiety."

How valuable is the advice of a fortuneteller in the 90s preparatory exam?

　　As a result, the anxiety of these young people became the business of the so-called "fortune-tellers".

　　So, who is giving the answer to the future of young people?

　　Wang Yifeng is 26 years old and has been engaged in divination for 4 years as an amateur. Four years ago, he quit his job to help others earn living expenses while preparing for postgraduate entrance examinations. Relying on divination, his extra monthly income is about 5,000 to 8,000 yuan, which can basically support the living expenses during the postgraduate entrance examination.

　　"Everyone's common anxiety gave birth to my sideline." Wang Yifeng said, "The people who came to me were young people, and it was generally about feelings and job development."

　　According to him, most of the people who came to him for divination were of the same age, which was impressive. Unexpectedly, there are many students from top universities at home and abroad, and even university professors. "The majority are college students, and young people who have recently entered the workplace. Before the epidemic, most of the counseling on emotional marriage and love were asked. In the past, five or six of the ten divinations asked about emotional problems. After the epidemic, the problem of counseling work has increased sharply. Graduates ask more questions about whether to take the civil service or postgraduate entrance examination."

　　Wang Yifeng described the so-called divination as "recommended consultation." In his opinion, communicating with guests mainly depends on his own knowledge, experience and experience. "For example, some college students will divination to choose which school to choose for the postgraduate entrance examination. I need to supplement the school choice knowledge. I will look at the school's admission scores in previous years, and then give suggestions based on the specific situation of the client."

　　Regardless of knowledge, experience or experience In his twenties, he was frustrated at his first job. How valuable is the life advice given by Wang Yifeng, who has been preparing for exams since then? When he is facing life choices and difficulties, does Wang Yifeng “make a fortune” for himself?

　　"I basically don't fortune telling for myself." Wang Yifeng said, whether it was resignation at the beginning or subsequent postgraduate entrance examinations, he never asked for help from the "power of metaphysics", but based on the considerations after weighing the pros and cons. "I resigned because my job was not well paid at the time and I felt that I had no future. Of course, I wanted to improve my academic qualifications and make myself more competitive in the future." He said.

　　Wang Yifeng admits that the so-called divination is only to obtain a psychological comfort, any result is caused by one's own behavior, and a good result can only be achieved through hard work. "In fact, you will find that the more successful and capable people are, the less likely you are to count them." He said.

　　After three years of review, Wang Yifeng successfully passed the postgraduate entrance examination and "landed ashore", and returned to campus in September this year to study for a master's degree in public management. "After all, learning is the last word." He told reporters.

The most superstitious first-tier cities? Nearly 20% of the total financing amount of fortune-telling companies exceeds 500 million yuan

　　There will be a market if there is demand. Some media estimates that my country's online fortune telling has spawned a market of 100 billion yuan, and "metaphysics" has also been favored by capital in recent years.

　　According to data from Tianyancha APP, according to incomplete statistics, there are currently about 177 companies in my country engaged in related businesses such as "constellation divination, I Ching feng shui, numerology analysis" and so on. In terms of geographical distribution, Beijing and Guangdong have the largest number of related companies engaged in this type of business, with more than 40 companies. Next is Shanghai, with more than 10 related companies.

　　From the perspective of registered capital, more than 50% of related companies have registered capital less than 1 million yuan. It is worth noting that 32 of the related companies have received financing, with a total financing amount of at least 500 million yuan. With the help of capital, the “fortune teller” who used to be alone in the past has rapidly evolved into a “team-oriented, corporate-oriented” operation model, from divination to the sale of “teachers”, to video rewards, and paid user customization, etc. , The ability to attract gold has also doubled.

　　Some fortune-telling companies also show feng shui to enterprises. A website called "Shanghai Huiyue Information Fengshui Naming Network" introduced that the company mainly provides services such as Fengshui site selection, layout adjustment, naming, and weekly forecasts. The website also claims that its service customers include Mazda, Deutsche Bank, Shanghai Volkswagen, Dumex, etc. Many institutions and enterprises.

　　Some lawbreakers are also using "metaphysics" to make "anxious wealth."

　　According to the "Rules of Law Daily" report, in April this year, a shop in Shenzhen that carried out superstitious fraud in the name of tarot card divination was investigated and dealt with by the police. In the name of Tarot divination, the shop provides various services such as "divination and fortune telling" and "communication between Yin and Yang". The "divine master" combines Eastern and Western myths to form his own set of theories to help "repay Yin debts", etc. The reason is to induce customers to buy "Crystal" and "Cinnabar" to ward off evil spirits and charge tens of thousands of yuan. The prices of various services on the price list vary, such as "Know Your Aura" at 699 yuan, "Power Pyramid" at 739 yuan, and "Energy Healing" at 1,389 yuan. Until they were investigated and dealt with by the police, there were still some victims who believed that they were voluntary transfer payments and not fraud.

　　According to data from the Tianyan Check APP, among the companies engaged in fortune-telling-related businesses, 29% of the related companies have experienced business abnormalities, and 7.2% of the related companies have received administrative penalties. In addition, 19% of related companies have had legal proceedings.

　　Li Xuehua, President of the Juvenile and Family Tribunal of the Haizhou District People’s Court of Lianyungang City, Jiangsu Province, said in an interview with the media that the relevant fields are currently a regulatory gap in law, and related judicial cases are relatively rare, and judicial advice cannot be issued in conjunction with trial cases. Introduce relevant regulations, strengthen supervision and strengthen legal sanctions.

 　　When people talk about feminism, they often mention the book "Second Sex", and mention Beauvoir's famous saying, "Women are not born, but acquired". Recently, I asked the French writer Beauvoir’s famous work "Second Sex" to read. The 700,000 words and 900 pages of the book are not easy to read. However, some gossip stories before and after the publication are very interesting.

　　Beauvoir has written four autobiography, but he has great reservations about his private life. It was only after her death that her diaries and letters were made public that people discovered that Beauvoir had a lesbian relationship, and the lovers they were dating were her own students. Later, some of these girls mingled with Sartre, and Beauvoir gave it to her. The letter written by American lover and writer Nelson is much more enthusiastic than the letter to Sartre. Beauvoir wrote an article analyzing how women's sexual autonomy is deprived. It seems that her own sexual autonomy has not been deprived.

　　Beauvoir has written four autobiography, but he has great reservations about his private life.

　　In the eyes of many modern women, Beauvoir is an ideal role model. She shows that a woman can live a life according to her own wishes regardless of everything, free from any prejudice. But in "Second Sex," Beauvoir writes that no woman can live her life "free of prejudice and prejudice."

　　Beauvoir was a schoolmaster since he was a child, going to school, teaching, and writing. During her schooling, French women did not have the right to vote, nor could they open their own accounts in the bank, that is, there was no guarantee of political power and economic power. Beauvoir’s academic performance is very good, but boys will not be regarded as intellectual or future professional competitors. At that time, the proportion of girls in French universities was 24%, but most of the way out for girls was to become teachers in girls’ schools.

　　Beauvoir wanted to study, but her mother wanted her to marry sooner. Eighteen or nine-year-old Beauvoir wrote in his diary, "I have a sense of powerlessness in life, no right to choose, everything is imposed on me, and in the end I can only give up myself in my life." Beauvoir told himself, "Be yourself, don't chase the goals imposed on you by the outside world, don't blindly follow the established social structure. What is useful to me is useful".

　　Beauvoir has a girlfriend named Zaza, who was born in a large family. Both of them like philosophy and both like to discuss philosophical issues like "love". The 21-year-old Beauvoir witnessed the disillusionment of Zaza's love story of life and death in pursuit of spiritual freedom. Love and freedom are unusually rare in a stereotypical society. Beauvoir's doubts about love and the emptiness of human nature can only be relieved in reason.

　　Twenty years later, "Second Sex" was published. In order to promote this book, the magazine "Modern" edited by Sartre and Beauvoir pre-published part of the second volume of "Secondity". One of the most eye-catching is the chapter "Female Sexual Enlightenment". In this chapter, Beauvoir describes a vision of free and mutually reciprocal sexual behavior, in which women can regard themselves as subjects, rather than as objects to enjoy sexual behavior. The novelist François Mauriac satirized Beauvoir’s article. Mauriac said that Beauvoir’s writing had reached the limit of sordidness.

　　Beauvoir has evoked a wave of humiliation. People scolded her as "hungry, indifferent, lewd, erotic, lesbian, aborted a hundred times, unmarried mother" and so on. Amidst the scolding, the first volume of "Second Sex" was officially published, with amazing sales, with 22,000 copies sold in the first week. Some male intellectuals accused Beauvoir of being angry with his inferiority complex. Some people said that the entire book "Second Sex" was full of "hateful tone." Some commented that the author was too neurotic and too frustrated. Ten years later, no one talks about this disgusting argument about sexual perversion and abortion.

　　No matter what kind of criticism and abuse she encounters, "Second Sex" has brought Beauvoir a generous amount of manuscript fees and an undesirable reputation. She bought a turntable and some records with the royalties, and it was all right to listen to classical music with Sartre. In November 1951, she wrote to her lover, "I decided to give my dirty heart to something that is not as dirty as a man. I want to give myself a beautiful black car."

 In Altamira National Forest Park near the BR-163 road, cattle pass through a forest that has just been burnt down. Novo Porogoleso along this highway is one of the towns with the highest deforestation rate in Brazil. Opening up grazing areas for cattle is one of the reasons for deforestation in the Amazonas in Brazil

Warriors from the Hicklin tribe arrived in Lapuko Village after patrolling the jungle. Indigenous tribes organized their own patrols to defend their territories, drive away illegal invaders, and combat deforestation

　　The Amazon Rainforest is known as the "Lung of the Earth". It absorbs a large amount of carbon dioxide and converts it into about 20% of the earth's oxygen. It is also the most biologically diverse area on earth, with about 3 million species of plants and animals inhabiting here. Three-fifths of this precious natural habitat is in Brazil. However, just as countries all over the world pay more attention to the threat of climate change, the development of natural resources in the Amazon region continues unabated.

　　Since the current Brazilian President Jair Bolsonaro took the oath of office in January 2019, he has supported the development of the rainforest economy, encouraging a large number of illegal loggers to overcut the Amazon forest, and farmers at the edge of the forest have expanded their arable land through slash and burn. area. Bolsonaro transferred the control of the Ministry of Indigenous Affairs to the Ministry of Agriculture, which gave the development of agribusiness enterprises a clear advantage over the survival of local indigenous tribes.

　　The Bolsonaro government has always advocated opening rainforest reserves to mining and agribusiness companies, believing that this can help the locals get rid of poverty. However, although 9 of the 10 cities with the lowest development index in Brazil are located in the Amazon region, the funds generated by mining and logging are ultimately used for local construction.

　　Bolsonaro did not let Brazil's environmental protection agency continue to monitor illegal logging in the Amazon region. Instead, he sent 2,500 soldiers from the national army to the region to enforce the law. Environmental organizations believe that this move is just a decoration.

After participating in protests against the construction of the Belo Monte Dam on the Xingu River, the Mondurucu Indians lined up at the Altamira Airport to board the plane and return. The Mondurucu people live on the Tapajós River, and the government has planned to build new hydropower projects there

A bird's eye view of the Belo Monte Dam on the Xingu River under construction. More than 80% of Xingu River's water is drawn from its natural river course, which will have an immeasurable impact on aquatic animals and the lifestyle of local residents. Despite strong opposition from local indigenous peoples, environmentalists and NGOs, the dam was completed in 2019

In Lilidade Village, foreign settlers build houses on a piece of newly felled land beside the BR-319 highway. The BR-319 road with a total length of 870 kilometers connects Manaus in the Amazon rainforest and Porto Velho in Rondônia. Although the road is broken and impassable due to the long rainy season, it can barely drive in the dry season, but it may degrade the original rain forest area. Land grabbing and illegal logging

　　As early as 2019, Bolsonaro met with protests from all over the world for denying that the Amazon rain forest fires have surged. At the same time, after the Brazilian National Institute of Space Research (INPE) released unfavorable data on Amazonian deforestation, the Bolsonaro government accused scientists of lying about the data and fired Ricardo Galvão, the head of the institute.

　　In July 2021, the Amazonian Science Group, composed of about 200 scientists around the world, issued a warning that over-exploitation and deforestation are putting more than 8,000 species of endemic plants and 2,300 species of animals in the Amazon rainforest at a high risk of extinction. A climate science study published in the British journal Nature on July 14 pointed out that deforestation and regional climate change may threaten the buffering potential of atmospheric carbon in the Amazon rainforest. The study found that carbon emissions in some areas exceed carbon absorption.

On the campsite on the banks of the Machi River, aboriginal women and children of the Pirahán tribe watched an ox cart passing by the nearby Trans-Amazon highway

On the Trans-Amazon Highway, a truck driven by a minor was seized, loaded with timber illegally mined from aboriginal land

Members of the Brazilian Special Inspection Group (GEF) are destroying a brick furnace used to make charcoal in an illegal sawmill. The wood used by this sawmill is illegally mined from the land of the indigenous people of Alto Turia

　　According to the latest data released by the Amazonian Institute of Human and Environmental Studies (Imazon) in Brazil, between August 2020 and July 2021, the Amazon rainforest has lost 10,476 square kilometers of vegetation, which is also the largest damage to the Amazon rainforest in the past 10 years.

　　The then Minister of the Environment of Brazil, Ricardo Salles, stated in April 2021 that Brazil needs US$10 billion in foreign aid each year to achieve carbon neutrality by 2050; only US$1 billion is needed each year to be able to achieve carbon neutrality. Let Brazil eliminate illegal deforestation before the current 2030 goals are achieved. A month later, Salles was investigated by the police for his involvement in illegal log export and resigned.

Nascimento, a resident of the Alapi Creek Mining Reserve, cut down the trees that blocked the canoe's progress in the stream, preparing to go to another reserve to gather nuts. The purpose of the mining protection area is to provide a sustainable forest development model for the traditional population living here, such as collecting forest products, but outsiders are secretly invading these areas for deforestation

A boy rests on the Xingu River Beach in the early Palatine. This is an aboriginal village near the Belo Monte Dam. After the flood, large swaths of dead trees like bamboo sticks were left around the reservoir.

Workers of the Belo Monte Dam gather on the banks of the city of Altamira. On the last weekend of the month, after the workers were paid, Altamira became a chaotic place. Thousands of drunks try to pursue the few women, causing violent fights from time to time

Altamira’s urban population increased from 100,000 to 140,000 within two years, and prices soared, especially housing and food prices. A man had to move because he couldn't afford the rent

Workers work in a gold mine in northern Mato Grosso State. This is one of Brazil's largest gold producing areas. Since the authorities have not enforced the environmental protection law, mining activities have caused river pollution and soil degradation

A butcher's shop in Verada Resaka. The stray dog ​​stared at the hanging meat. Canada's Belo Sun Mining Company plans to build one of the world's largest open-pit gold mines here. The project is only a few kilometers away from the Belo Monte Dam. This area that is on the verge of being abandoned due to the construction of a hydropower station will usher in new changes

In Altamira, a farmer funded a billboard to support President Bolsonaro

Para state is the most severely deforested state in the Amazon region of Brazil, accounting for 43% of the total deforestation in the region. Large areas of forest were cut down, leaving only a small piece of rainforest surrounded by endless farmland

 　　Adamson works as a sales manager for Youmei Seating Company. Recently, he got a definite news from the company headquarters: Kodak founder Eastman donated a huge sum of money to build a concert hall, a memorial and a theater in Rochester. The seats needed in this batch of buildings are looking for businesses outside. If these orders can be won, the company's performance will reach a new level.

　　The company headquarters assigned this task to Adamson's department, and the boss gave him the advice: get the order at the least cost.

　　After Adamson took the order, he immediately convened a meeting to discuss countermeasures. Regrettably, after discussing for a long time, everyone did not come up with a feasible plan. Just as Adamson was at a loss, the assistant brought another bad news: I heard that Eastman was a weird person. People from many rival companies went to negotiate with him, but he was kicked out of the office within 5 minutes. In this regard, everyone said there was nothing they could do.

　　Adamson has always faced difficulties in doing things, but this time he also obviously felt very difficult. When he got home from get off work, his wife Mary asked him with a sad look, "My dear, what's the matter with you?" Adamson told his wife the truth again. The wife smiled and said: "Eastman must have his own characteristics, you might as well pay attention." The words awakened the dreamer, and the words of his wife made Adamson pause.

　　In the next few days, Adamson had been on the go. With a small gift, he visited friends around Eastman one by one. He even went to the renovation company that helped Eastman decorate the office, and went to the library to check materials. After nearly a week of preparations, he is quite sure about winning this order.

　　That morning, Adamson came to Eastman's company and was introduced to the office by the secretary. Eastman was immersed in a pile of documents without even looking at Adamson. Taking advantage of this time, Adamson quietly looked at the decoration of the office.

　　After a while, Eastman looked up and saw him, and asked, "What does the sir do?" The secretary gave a brief introduction and then withdrew. Adamson smiled and said: "I took a closer look at your office just now. From my long-term experience in interior decoration, I have never found any office that can be decorated so exquisitely." "Really? This is my own. Designed!" Eastman said proudly. Adamson walked to the wall and touched the board with his hand, and said, "If I read it right, this board is made in England." Eastman stood up happily: "Yes, this is for me to study. The friends of the indoor oak made a special trip to the UK to order the goods.”

　　Next, Eastman was in a very good mood and led Adamson to visit his office, from wood to proportion, from proportion to color, from color to price and his design. After passing, they all introduced them one by one.

　　Seeing Eastman talking about his happiness, Adamson asked him curiously about his experience. Eastman talked to Adamson about his miserable childhood, how the mother and son struggled in poverty, how the camera was invented later, and his plan to make a huge donation to the society. Adamson listened carefully and sincerely. Praise him for his kindness.

　　In this way, the two of them chatted for a whole afternoon, still talking about each other. Finally, Eastman also invited Adamson to have a meal at his home, and after the meal, he visited the process of painting wooden chairs. From beginning to end, they never talked about business. Later, Adamson not only received this order, Eastman also delivered a large number of other orders to him, and the two also forged a deep friendship.

　　In the process of sales, the secret of obtaining orders is not whether you can advertise to the other party eloquently. Sometimes, sincere appreciation and proper compliment can get the other party’s favor and let the other party take the initiative to make transaction decisions.

 　　I originally planned to write an essay that explores how technological advancement affects literature, but found that it is a hard bone that can't be gnawed, so I had to replace "literature" with "fiction." Thinking about it carefully, since my debut for 17 years, I have never cared about "literature". Even if I mention it occasionally, I feel at a loss as to what "literature" means.

　　So, how has technological advancement affected the mystery? The answer is total subversion, the most representative of which is the popularity of mobile phones.

　　For example, someone found a male dead in the wilderness. Upon examination, the cause of his death was cerebral hemorrhage caused by a heavy blow to the back of the head. Whether this is a homicide case is still inconclusive, but the police found that about ten minutes before the deceased was found, he called his wife and was confirmed by the latter. However, the nearest telephone set was also more than an hour away. How did he contact his wife?

　　If it is a mystery a few years ago, this mystery alone is enough to attract readers. The police or detective must rack their brains and diverge thinking to explain this impossible situation at first glance.

　　Unfortunately, time has passed. I can affirm that readers today are no longer curious about the above-mentioned situation. The police involved in the investigation will not hesitate to search for mobile phones, otherwise readers will also be puzzled. If they can't find it, they will suspect that the phone was taken away like readers, making the clues unsuspicious.

　　This is just a simple example, but with the appearance of mobile phones, many telephone tricks in ancient and modern works have mostly lost their meaning. Of course, the story itself will not become boring, but readers must consider the background of the times when reading such novels.

　　There is also a camera who suffers from the same illness. Like the phone, there are countless puzzles to make a fuss about photos, but all of them are old-fashioned film cameras. A typical routine is that in order to claim his alibi, the criminal suspect took out a photo taken at a location far away from the crime scene, with the exact time and date printed on it in addition to himself. Once the photo is considered genuine, the suspect has no possibility of committing the crime. Detectives must dig out their brains to find out the quirks and let the facts of the case come to light.

　　But in the future, even if you think of similar institutions, I am afraid you can't write them into novels. After all, digital equipment has become the mainstream. Although the film camera will not disappear, but the light and convenient digital camera has entered thousands of households, I am afraid it is difficult for readers to accept the tricks of using photos. With the rapid development of computer retouching technology, even whether digital photos can be counted as evidence has to be questioned. If the characters in the work have to use film, it will definitely make the reader feel unnatural and make the story give off a false taste.

　　It is not only the gadgets such as telephones and cameras that influence the mystery, but also the increasingly developed means of transportation that cannot be ignored.

　　Assuming that the shortest tram route between A and B takes more than five hours, a certain writer has come up with a wonderful technique that will allow the murderer in A and B to arrive at B in just four hours after committing a murder. . As a result, the excited writer is frantically typing on the keyboard (or furiously writing), hopefully thinking that readers will be surprised by their stories. Unexpectedly, just before he was about to complete the manuscript, an amazing news came-the newly opened train line shortened the journey between the two places to three hours. Faced with this news, the writer can only abandon the article in tears.

　　The influence of technological progress on mystery is more than trickery, but the real focus is on plot development.

　　Different from ordinary novels, in reasoning works, the actions of characters are often calculated. Sometimes in order to make the story more interesting and exciting, the writer deliberately creates accidents between the characters. For example, let someone miss a meeting with an important character, or even lose contact with the other person. However, the advent of mobile phones makes all this difficult: For modern people, it is almost nonsense for modern people to miss the meeting place and delay important appointments. Therefore, writers either create characters who don't have mobile phones, or put them in places where the signal is blocked. However, as the penetration rate of mobile phones continues to rise, it is becoming more and more impossible to go out without a mobile phone, and the signal coverage is expanding year by year.

　　At a party not long ago, a writer worries: "I want a character who has just returned to China to be unable to contact his lover at the airport, but the other party has a mobile phone, which is really troublesome. I have to find a way to make the phone call. OK.”

　　So, has technological advancement increased the difficulty of creating mystery novels? My answer is no. It may be said that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages in terms of conditions.

　　The development of the Internet has brought new types of criminal methods that people have never imagined, and has caused the entire society to face problems. But to the reasoning writers dealing with crime, it seems to be a new treasure. In the past, it was unimaginable that two strangers suddenly became intimate, but with the rise of dating sites, similar plot creation has become a breeze.

　　The popularity of mobile phones and digital cameras also provides the ground for the growth of new tricks, and convenient transportation has greatly expanded the stage of the story.

　　However, writers cannot be satisfied with following the pace of new methods of committing crimes. Once a new technology emerges, we must think more enthusiastically about its impact on crimes and the new types of cases that may be triggered than real criminals. If we can conceive a crime plan that makes the police take a breath of air, it will also contribute to society from the perspective of preventing problems before they happen.

　　However, few writers have the foresight of crimes that have not yet occurred in reality. We are often the same as the police, and it is not until after the fact that we realize the technique. Just ask, who would think of using a crane to destroy an ATM machine?

　　I watched the TV news and couldn't help thinking about it: If the criminal who came up with this new idea became a writer, he might be able to write a very interesting mystery.

 　　Gastrointestinal tumors are the general term for tumors in the esophagus, stomach, colorectal and other parts. They often have no obvious symptoms in the early stage. Therefore, the patients treated are basically advanced tumors with poor treatment effects and poor prognosis. But in fact, most gastrointestinal tumors can be effectively controlled and even cured through preventive screening, early diagnosis and early treatment. Therefore, it is very necessary to actively carry out the prevention and treatment of early cancer of the digestive tract.

Be alert to early symptoms and do a good job of screening

　　Colorectal cancer, gastric cancer, and esophageal cancer ranked 3rd, 5th and 7th respectively in the global incidence of malignant tumors, which are common causes of cancer deaths. What are their early symptoms?

　　Early esophageal cancer

　　of esophageal cancer refers to tumor invasion and early mucosa, and regardless of the presence or absence of lymph node metastasis. During this period, the clinical manifestations are not obvious, and most of them are recurring foreign body sensation or choking sensation when swallowing food, or pain behind the breastbone. Many studies have proven that endoscopic minimally invasive treatment for early esophageal cancer has basically the same clinical efficacy as surgery, and endoscopic diagnosis and treatment has the advantages of shortening hospital stay, improving postoperative quality of life, and reducing pulmonary complications .

　　At present, endoscopy and pathological biopsy are still important screening methods for early detection of esophageal cancer. The "Chinese Expert Consensus Opinion on Early Esophageal Cancer and Precancerous Lesion Screening (2019, Xinxiang)" recommends that the starting age for esophageal cancer screening is 40 years old, and the screening should be terminated when the age of 75 or life expectancy is less than 5 years. New high-risk factors: hot soup diet, fast eating, air pollution, tooth loss. The use of esophageal cancer screening scores/questionnaires to assess the risk of esophageal cancer can increase the screening rate; at the same time, early esophageal cancer and intraepithelial neoplasia (or dysplasia) should be the main screening targets.

　　2. early gastric cancer,

　　gastric cancer refers to early invasive cancer limited to the mucosa and submucosa, with or without lymph node metastasis. According to the unevenness of the gastric mucosa surface tissue, it is divided into uplift, superficial and concave. The superficial type is subdivided into three subtypes: superficial convex, superficial flat and superficial concave. The vast majority of early gastric cancer have no obvious symptoms, or only non-specific symptoms such as upper abdominal discomfort, acid reflux, belching, and loss of appetite. In severe cases, abdominal pain, hematemesis, and melena may also occur. Endoscopic treatment of early gastric cancer has a good prognosis, and the 5-year survival rate can reach more than 90%. Therefore, endoscopy is of great significance for the detection of early gastric cancer.

　　In addition to gastroscopy and related tumor markers as routine screening methods, the "Expert Consensus Opinions on the Screening Process for Early Gastric Cancer in China (2017, Shanghai)" puts forward the concept of "precise stratification" of the risk of gastric cancer and summarizes the related risks. Table evaluation method. The scale is mainly composed of five variables: gender, age, pepsinogen, gastrin 17 and Helicobacter pylori antibody, and assigned corresponding scores. The sensitivity of the scale for diagnosing gastric cancer is 70.8%, the negative predictive value is 98.8%, and the accuracy rate can reach 75.7%. It can be used as an important tool for gastric cancer screening.

　　3. Early colorectal cancer

　　colorectal cancer is early colorectal epithelial tumor of any size is limited to the depth of invasion of mucosa and submucosa, with or without lymph node metastasis. Pathologically, there are two main types: low-grade intraepithelial neoplasia is also called mild and moderate dysplasia, which are benign lesions; high-grade intraepithelial neoplasia is also called severe dysplasia, carcinoma in situ, carcinoma in situ Suspicious infiltration and intramucosal carcinoma are malignant lesions. Colorectal cancer often has no obvious clinical symptoms in the early stage. As the tumor progresses, there may be changes in defecation habits and nature, such as blood in the stool, diarrhea, local abdominal pain, frequent defecation, and incomplete defecation.

　　Colonoscopy and related tumor markers are important measures for the early diagnosis of colon cancer. According to the "Expert Consensus Opinions on the Screening Process for Early Colorectal Cancer in China (2017, Shanghai)", it is recommended that population screening and opportunistic screening be combined, and screening is recommended The subjects are people between 50 and 75 years old, regardless of whether there are alarm symptoms. The use of colorectal cancer screening scores/questionnaires for colorectal cancer risk assessment can significantly increase the screening rate.

Many diagnosis and treatment methods help early diagnosis and treatment

　　The occurrence and development of gastrointestinal tumors is a long-term and complex process. Normal epithelium-simple hyperplasia-dysplasia-carcinoma in situ-invasive carcinoma is considered to be the classic process of tumor growth, which takes 10-15 years on average to complete, and some may only take 5 years or less. The so-called "precancerous lesions" refer to the intermediate stage from normal tissues to carcinogenesis. Precancerous lesions of gastrointestinal tumors generally include chronic inflammation, malignant ulcers, polyps, adenomas, adenomatosis, and heterogeneous hyperplasia. At present, the treatment of precancerous lesions and carcinoma in situ is mainly done through endoscopy or surgery.

　　The first is endoscopic resection. Endoscopic resection of diseased tissue has become a routine treatment because of its advantages such as less trauma, faster recovery and fewer complications. Except for a small number of patients with excessively large diameters, malignant changes under the microscope, and a large number, most of them can be removed by endoscopy treatment. Commonly used endoscopic resections for gastrointestinal polyps include conventional endoscopic polypectomy, endoscopic mucosal resection (EMR), and endoscopic submucosal dissection (ESD).

　　The second is other endoscopic treatment techniques, including argon ion coagulation, hot electrode therapy, and cold cutting snare. These methods and techniques can only remove small polyps and other minimally diseased tissues, and cannot confirm pathological diagnosis and whether they are cured. Therefore, pathological biopsy of tissue types that tend to become cancerous should be performed before the treatment of minimal changes.

　　The third is surgical treatment. Carcinoma in situ and precancerous lesions are generally treated with ESD or EMR. However, additional surgical operations are required when the following conditions occur: (1) the lateral and basal margins of the excised specimen are positive; (2) the submucosa is highly infiltrated; (3) the vascular invasion is positive; (4) poorly differentiated adenocarcinoma, undifferentiated Differentiated carcinoma; (5) The budding grade of carcinoma is above G2.

　　In recent years, through the unremitting efforts of the majority of medical workers, the prevention and treatment of early gastrointestinal cancer has achieved initial results. This is due to the clinical popularization of many testing methods, such as electronic high-definition gastrointestinal endoscopy, carbon 13/carbon 14 breath test, capsule endoscopy, and fecal occult blood test. Of course, the emergence and application of some new methods and technologies, such as fecal DNA methylation detection, magnetic control capsule endoscopy, electronic staining gastrointestinal endoscopy, multidimensional omics research technology and the use of artificial intelligence medical risk models based on biological calculations, These can better improve the detection rate of early gastrointestinal cancer, so as to achieve early detection and early treatment.

　　In terms of the prevention of early gastrointestinal cancer, long-term intake of tobacco and alcohol, high-fat diet, irregular diet, staying up late and other bad lifestyle habits can lead to a significant increase in the incidence of gastrointestinal tumors. Therefore, these risk factors should be focused on and adjusted in time, such as quitting smoking and limiting alcohol, eating regularly, maintaining adequate sleep, strengthening physical exercise, controlling weight, increasing dietary fiber intake, and reducing red meat intake. In addition, Helicobacter pylori infection is also one of the main carcinogens of early gastrointestinal cancer, so once Helicobacter pylori infection should be eradicated in time. At the same time, for people over 40 years old, people in areas with high incidence of gastrointestinal tumors, and high-risk groups with family history of gastrointestinal tumors and history of gastrointestinal polyps, gastrointestinal endoscopy should be performed every 1 to 2 years.

　　Expert introduction

　　Zhang Mingxin First Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Medical College, medical director, Dr., deputy chief physician, master tutor. Winner of the May 1st Labor Medal of Shaanxi Province, Winner of the May 4th Youth Medal of Shaanxi Province, Outstanding Young Talents in Shaanxi Province, and the first most promising young oncologist of the Chinese Society of Clinical Oncology. Mainly dedicated to the clinical and basic research of gastrointestinal tumors and liver diseases, carrying out endoscopic precision treatment of esophageal and gastric varices (ESVD), endoscopic submucosal dissection (ESD), endoscopic gastric wall resection (EFR), Endoscopic submucosal tunnel tumor resection (STER) and other operations.

 　　Once, when I was attending a relative’s ceremony, the young host even forgot the words and spoke intermittently. Then he took out the card and read it while reading it. The guests in the audience roared and asked the host to come back. He blushed and said that he was a novice, please forgive me. It was not until the boss came forward to relieve the siege that the scene was stabilized.

　　During the meal, the host was at the same table with me, only to find up close that he was my former fitness coach Xiao Ou. Well done in the fitness industry, why would you switch to a wedding company as a host?

　　Xiao Ou said that he was a little tired of being a fitness coach for two years. Seeing a friend serving as a wedding host, I felt relaxed and beautiful, so I entered this business because of my good voice and good image. He said frustratedly: "I think it's great to be a host, but now it seems that I am not suitable."

　　This sounded familiar. I remembered that when I first met him in the gym, he also said something similar: “Originally, I wanted to be a hair stylist. After studying for half a year, I found that being a fitness coach is great. I immediately changed my job!” His rapid change of career made me wonder What to say. It is of course good for a person to have work enthusiasm, and it is okay to constantly challenge oneself, but you should first figure out your own strengths and weaknesses and set a clear direction.

　　Some people are easy to envy other people's scenery, thinking that as long as they follow in the footsteps of others' success, they can make themselves equally great. As everyone knows, the most important thing in life is to find a coordinate that suits you. If you don’t even recognize yourself, it will naturally be difficult for others to recognize you.

　　On weekends, my friend asked me to drink crock soup in the south of the city. I got up early, but when I arrived at the store, it was on the 30th. My friend arrived earlier than me, ranking on the 18th. I complained that she didn't help me get the number in advance. My friend explained that the store only stewed 200 crock soups every day, and they closed when they were sold out. Fearing that customers from afar can't drink, they have always adopted the method of queuing up with the number. Each person can only get one number and can only buy one can at a time.

　　"Since there are so many customers, wouldn't it be enough to cook a few more pots of soup?" I said puzzled. The customers behind smiled and said: "It's a good thing to be able to drink this soup. If you drink this soup a day, you don't think about meat in March."

　　He introduced that the secret recipe for the soup was developed by the boss himself, and the ingredients are all natural. . Every pot of soup, the boss personally cuts the ingredients and watches the fire. In order to ensure quality, he sells in limited quantities every day, never greedy for more.

　　There were also big hotels who wanted to invite him, and small restaurants who wanted to join, but he declined. He felt that his specialty was to make soup by hand, so he made the soup in a down-to-earth manner.

　　Only then did I understand that it is no wonder that his crock pot soup will become a must in the small town, because he is well versed in the truth that "the enterprise cannot stand, the straddle cannot". If you stand on tiptoe, you cannot stand for long; if you take big steps, you cannot walk for long. At this time, calm down, be yourself, and take every step of the way, which is the best way.

　　If you want to be big, you must be sincere. To be truly remarkable is to learn to settle down in one's own field, learn with ingenuity, and do a good job of deep cultivation, until you get the real talent and become a top expert.

　　Only through refining can it be made into steel. When you do what you love to the utmost, you will find that it is great to do yourself well.

 　　Mr. N’s daily life has an unknown happiness.

　　If you are an ordinary person, you won't be able to deliberately engage in personal secrets. However, Mr. N is different, because his wife's brain is twice as smart as others, and coupled with a broken mouth and nagging, he has to keep some personal secrets.

　　After get off work, Mr. N will not go somewhere to spend time, but head straight to home. Although he also has the idea of ​​drinking a glass on the way home to relieve his sorrow and boredom, he will be questioned by his wife if he wants to do that.

　　Mr. N is not good at lying. When he tells a lie, flaws will appear immediately. As a result, his nagging wife always complains endlessly. Thinking of this, he thought it was better to go home earlier.

　　After dinner, he watched TV for a while, and it was time to go to bed. It is the wife's job to make the bed, so it is Mr. N's business to warm the milk. Drinking a glass of milk before going to bed is a habit of couples.

　　At this time, Mr. N puts a pill in the milk that his wife drank. The medicine melted quickly, it was a kind of medicine with no smell. Then he took the two glasses of milk, and the two drank the milk.

　　"Okay, good night!" The two said good night to each other and went to bed.

　　It didn't take long for the wife to start breathing smoothly. The medicine worked. This medicine not only has the effect of hypnosis, but also makes people enter a happy dream. The medicine was obtained by Mr. N from a friend. At that time, Mr. N tried to take one pill. He dreamed that he was playing in the beautiful garden, and he also dreamed that he was leisurely boating on the lake.

　　It is estimated that his wife is also having such a beautiful dream, and she has an expression of joy. If she had a nightmare, she would wake up from the dream, and having a sweet dream would not make Mr. N worry that way.

　　Mr. N put his head on the pillow and pretended to be asleep. After a while, he squinted at his wife to confirm that she was asleep.

　　After that, Mr. N got up with a smile full of expectation. He changed into his clothes for going out, sneaked out of the house, and went straight to the street under the night, and went happy. Suddenly, his whole body was filled with an unspeakable sense of relief. The time of being free and hearing no complaints began. Everything is full of vitality and vigor.

　　There is a bar that Mr. N loves to visit, called "Little Fairy", which is open until late every night. The furnishings in the bar are very luxurious, fragrant and fine wines are all available, and the prices are not so expensive. As soon as Mr. N entered the door, a waitress greeted him.

　　"Oh, welcome!" The bar was full of pretty girls.

　　"A glass of brandy." After a

　　while, the wine he asked for was brought.

　　The hostess accosted: "You always come late."

　　"Well, because

　　you are busy at work." "You are really a busy person, it is so hard..."

　　Naturally, Mr. N would not say that he was waiting for his wife to sleep well. It came out later. While drinking and chatting with the waitress, Mr. N was in a good mood.

　　If there is no short time spent in the bar, Mr. N will feel depressed and panicked. I work diligently in the company, go home immediately after get off work, and stay at home obediently at night. Do you not make people mentally ill every day? This pastime in the bar should be allowed. He can find the meaning of life here: eating and drinking, or chatting with the waitress, sometimes singing, dancing and so on. He just wants to be drunk forever in the singing and dancing arena where he can eat, drink and have fun.

　　However, you can't drink without going back. After the block in his mind was properly resolved, Mr. N got up and paid. Although he could pay on credit, he decided to settle it in cash. If you don't pay the debts inadvertently, and the person who asks for the debts calls home, it will be troublesome.

　　After walking out of the goblin bar, on the way home, Mr. N will check himself again. No matches or receipts from the bar should be left in the pocket. If there is lipstick on the shirt, it must also be wiped clean. If it is discovered by his wife, it must be disturbed.

　　Any evidence that you have visited a bar at night cannot be taken home. After some checks, Mr. N went home and changed clothes and went to bed. The wife seems to be sleeping soundly in bed, she must have been dreaming.

　　Mr. N lives this way every day. This did not hinder his work the next day. He felt that he had been secretly enjoying himself without being noticed by his wife. Feeling comfortable, but it is beneficial to relieve fatigue.

　　During the day, Mr. N was careful: try not to go in the direction of that bar. Uncertainty about a certain reason will cause things to be revealed.

　　On the way home from get off work, although Mr. N wanted to stop by the bar to have a good time, he still held back. Because it’s happier to drink with peace of mind after the wife falls asleep than to drink in secret.

　　However, one afternoon, Mr. N passed by that bar because of work. While thinking about going there again at night, he looked far into the bar. But the strange thing is that, for some reason, there is no bar called "Little Fairy"—the bar I go to every day is gone! It was replaced by a dim sum shop with a different name and furnishings. How is this going? Did that bar suddenly close today? However, it was open as usual last night, and I haven't heard about the bankruptcy or relocation of the bar. But at this moment the bar disappeared like a phantom.

　　Mr. N went to the dim sum shop to try to find out something.

　　"There is a bar called'Little Fairy' here. What's going on with it?"

　　"What are you talking about? I haven't heard of a bar with this name."

　　Mr. N was surprised by the other party's answer.

　　"But, until last night, that store was still here..."

　　"Impossible, my dim sum store is always here. I have never heard of any bar nearby."

　　What's the matter? Every night, he went out here to drink and have fun, and he paid a lot of money for the wine. Although I haven't taken the match or receipt from the bar, the bar should be right here.

　　Mr. N went to another two nearby shops to inquire about it, but everyone said they didn't know.

　　That night, Mr. N was lying in bed thinking about it. He was lying on the bed, fiddling with the pillow while trying to solve the mystery. However, even if he wanted to break his head, he couldn't think of a reason.

　　Once the goblin bar ceased to exist, Mr. N had no desire to go out. During this period, he noticed that the pillow in his hand seemed to be wrong, and there seemed to be something in it.

　　After pulling it out, he found that it was an inexplicable little device. I can't guess what it is, but it looks very delicate.

　　Mr. N saw the manufacturer's name written on the device and made a call.

　　"Hey, hello, what does your company produce?"

　　A clerk replied, "Our company specializes in producing dream pillows. Is there something wrong with your pillow? Who are you..."

　　N The husband said his name.

　　The other party said: "Ah, if it's your house, then this pillow is made according to your wife's request when placing the order. As long as your head touches the pillow, you will immediately fall asleep. You will dream of yourself walking out. At home, the scene of going to a bar to drink. Is the scene in the dream clear?" It is so

　　clear that it can't be clear. Mr. N finally fully understood the ins and outs of the matter, and he was deceived by this thing. The money paid for wine in the dream was probably taken from his wallet by his wife who got up early in the morning.

　　It seems that the wife's brain is better to use. In front of her, Mr. N was defeated and couldn't raise his head.

 　　You always give priority to taking care of others' emotions and giving priority. It is clear that they bully you and you are wronged. You still smile and comfort yourself. You should be sensible. This is growth.

　　Where to grow? Give yourself flatulence all day long?

　　If you always exclude your own feelings, then in the future, others will no longer respect your feelings, and you don't know how to love yourself, so how can others love you?

　　Keep your head down, I don’t know if your crown is off, but it’s not good for the cervical spine. The electronic scale reminds you every day, don't underestimate yourself, don't let your body be stretched out because of eating too much. Be kind to yourself and serve snacks, such as horseshoe cake, crystal buns, and wonderful crispy corners. These snacks are delicious.

　　When you get crazy, you will find that the world is much gentler to you. This kind of madness has found self-respect and is a choice of oneself. This choice is joyful and unconditional.

　　It's not that you have a fish. Give up pickled cabbage fish and make yourself aggrieved with chopped pepper fish head, vinegared fish tail, and spicy stir-fried fish offal.

　　We know that love is all about giving. What are your reasons for paying? Is it like it or is it fear?

　　Like, you give, and then your heart will be rich, you will feel happy, you will get energy, and you will meet many people who make your life happy.

　　Fear type, you are afraid of not being loved, you pay for it, and you keep emptying yourself out, you are testing, he doesn't like durian, you change tiramisu, he doesn't like strawberry pudding, you change crispy ice cream, Until you change to what he likes, at that moment, you feel at ease and feel safe. Then, one day, he no longer likes it, you fall into a new fear and start a new round of searching, until one day, you are exhausted.

　　Therefore, loving yourself is not forcing yourself to deliver. You only have a lollipop, and you cannot give generously to someone you don't love. And giving is not to exchange the other party’s popsicles.

　　The most important thing to love yourself is to let go of fear: if I don’t do this, what will the other person think. Don't plunge yourself into self-blame, don't plunge yourself into restlessness, you know, the temporary sense of security maintained by that lollipop is very short, very short, not too short.

2 You are afraid of not being loved or accepted, and you have made many decisions against your will.

　　If you feel scared and exchange things for a sense of security, then you will completely forget the feeling of love, because love will not let you fall into this kind of troubles, gains and losses, love will not make you suffer, and love will not put you at the end. .

　　One day, when you love yourself, you will find that there is a kind of tenderness in your heart.

　　You won't blame the child for knocking down the vase, you will ask her with concern if she got her hands. You will not criticize the child for doing so badly, you will comfort her, it does not matter, there is another time. You will not ignore how annoying a child is to hug, you will stretch out your hands and hold them tighter than her.

　　You love yourself, and the more you love, the more love you can give. Then, you will find that the more people love you, because they know how to love you.

　　At that moment, your love is unconditional. When you love yourself and you can get lollipops, you don’t mind if there are popsicles to eat. On the contrary, you also have Bang Bang Chicken and Bang Bang Bun, because you are Bang Bang. Yes, then, the fear disappeared.

　　When you know that you can love yourself, then you allow others not to love you, you allow yourself to make mistakes, you allow some people to leave you, you allow bad things to happen, you allow yourself to collapse late at night, you allow others to deny you, you Allow yourself to be childish and cute, you allow yourself to be less successful, you allow your permission. Then you will have a good time, instead of today, you hold your love and exchange it, and it looks good.

　　You seldom allow yourself to do many things in your heart. Over the years, you have been unkind to yourself, and you have not allowed yourself to be ordinary, which made you suffer a lot. Allow it, what's wrong?

　　You know, when one person goes through all kinds of hardships and arrives at another person, this is not love, and love will not be proved by one person's consumption. One person's set sail does not need another person's harbor, she arrives in her own starlight, and it is also very romantic.

　　Can you imagine? You are four or five years old, you are full of curiosity about the world, you are writing down your dreams, and then you stand in front of her as you are today, rush over, tear off her manuscript paper, and you tell her that your dreams are nothing. Value, when you grow up, you live in a mess, nothing is done, you have no value, if you can't support your salary, you can't meet someone you like, you are a waste. Cruel? Perhaps this is how you deny yourself every day. You always plunge yourself into negative emotions and torture your self-esteem. Why can't you love yourself like you love a child? It's the first time you've lived your life.

　　Don’t blame the kid who occasionally loses temper, loses shape, fears social interaction, low self-esteem, is sensitive and tries hard to blend into the circle of colleagues. Allow her occasionally to say something wrong with her low EQ, allow her to study slowly, and allow her to be stupid when she loves someone. Allow her to have some unrealistic fantasies, allow her to occasionally be lazy, allow her to cry, and allow her to allow yourself.

　　You have to allow you to be yourself, even if you are in a marriage, secondly you are XX's lover, and then XX's parents.

 　　There is a woman who is not young anymore, rushing from left to right, unknowingly standing on the tip of the tail of youth, still wandering leisurely alone. Others were anxious for her and persuaded her: "Don't pick it, the more you pick it, the more dazzling you are, and it's okay to find someone to marry it."

　　She laughed, and calmly replied: "I admit, I am not beautiful enough, not elegant enough. Not good enough, not as romantic and passionate as San Mao, not as beautiful and intelligent as Lin Huiyin, not as talented as Zhang Ailing, and not as knowledgeable and knowledgeable as Yang Jiang, I am just an ordinary little woman, but this It does not prevent me from finding a person who is satisfactory. I have the right not to get it."

　　Others laughed at her and said she was crazy. When the flowers are gone, they may not be able to wait for the person in my heart. She didn't mind what others said, she still went to get off work and went to see the scenery in the distance, and she had a lively life by herself. She said: "If I can't wait for that person in my life, I'd rather be alone until I

　　grow old." It takes a strong heart to pave the way for me to do my own way . If I don't, I need the courage to go against the current. In real life, there are many people who like to leave. Because it’s simpler, going down the river, you don’t have to support it, it’s easier, and you don’t have to compete with yourself. It’s a kind of self-compromise.

　　If you are willing to settle down, many things in life can be settled, ranging from the cost of food and clothing to marriage and career.

　　When I wake up in the morning, I am almost late for work. I grab a bun and eat a few biscuits. Breakfast is over. There is not much youth left. Xun Mi Mi hasn't found the one you like. Just bite your teeth and forget it. Anyway, and Everyone lives in partnership with each other. You can wear your clothes when they are old, and you can eat as long as you don’t have bad meals. Even big things like marriage can be done if you can’t wait.

　　But, don't you feel wronged in this coming day? At an age when you can struggle, choose ease? In the days when you can live out your true temperament, what will your choice be?

　　Some time ago, I went to a friend's house as a guest. My friend came back from abroad, seeking a Chinese medicine prescription to treat his family, and temporarily lived in a small rented house. The house was really small, so small that when I turned around, I either touched this object or touched that thing. But this small house was cleaned up by her. The newly painted walls were dazzlingly white. There were green dills hanging in front of the windows. There were succulents on the windowsill. On the desk, there was a long-necked beauty vase for freshness. Lily.

　　I sighed: "This flower is really fragrant!" She smiled and said, "This little house is near the sea. This season is a bit humid and musty. Lilies can be filthy."

　　An inconspicuous little house was taken care of by her. To be warm and comfortable. Originally it was just a temporary stay, and she didn't need to spend so much thought, but she didn't want to leave it alone. She saw what I was thinking, and said: "I live for a day. I don't want to be too hard for myself. It is good for my mood to look comfortable, not to mention that it doesn't cost much, and it doesn't cost much."

　　From my friend's home. , I suddenly felt emotional. Life is not easy to live, and it will be even more difficult if it is not. This is true for the rented small snail house, what about the attitude towards life?

　　I have always liked this strong, independent and confident woman. Such a woman is as flexible as a horse lotus, turns green early, has a long green period, and has elegant colors. Even in the remote desert, she can fragrant alone. No matter how much hardship she encounters, no matter how unfair her life is, she will be calm and composed, smile face to face, take care of things, don't panic, don't do it, and live a free and easy life.

　　Not to be an attitude, not to be oneself, not to be a life, and to live up to life. You can only become better if you don't be alone; you can only be rewarded if you don't live by yourself. If there is hope in everything, put in 100% effort, and life will not fail you.

　　"If you don't come, I'm not old", this is an attitude of life that is not going to end. Life is like a kaleidoscope, with different colors and mysteries, depending on what you insist on and what you want.

 　　In the 1980s, our family was approved as a homestead and built a new house at the foot of the mountain far from the main village. There were 11 neighbors in the surrounding area. Our houses are planned in a unified way and all have flat roofs. This kind of flat roof is very practical, we no longer need to go to the yard and the road to dry food.

　　The crops are harvested and returned home and transported directly to the roof of the house. Our children are frequent visitors on the roof, and we are rushed by our parents when nothing happens to be "scarecrows" to scare sparrows.

　　My house has a wooden ladder, but I don’t climb the ladder on the roof. I climb on the yard wall by stepping on the chicken coop, then climb from the yard wall to the flat house to build on the concrete rain, and then climb from the rain to the roof.

　　Accompanying me to "climb" on the roof are the little book, radio and water. I was sitting in the grain on a roof, playing and being a "scarecrow", and when my neighbor next door also climbed up on the roof of my house, when they saw me, they came to gather on the roof of my house. Although we gathered on the roof of a house, we could take care of our own house. When a sparrow fell down and wanted to eat food, we stood up and clapped our hands and shouted a few times. The timid sparrow was scared away.

　　In addition to frightening the sparrows, we are also in charge of drying the grain, several times a day. After the parents get off work in the afternoon, we have to help them pack up the food on the roof to prevent them from getting wet by the dew at night. In this way, the day's work is finished.

　　Of course, sometimes before the parents get off work, the weather suddenly turns overcast and there is a sign of rain, we will hurriedly pile up the grain and cover it with plastic sheeting. The most annoying thing is that the rain did not arrive as expected. Just after the grain was covered, the sun appeared in the sky, and we had to spread the grain again. But this kind of weather is always rare, and most of the time it is still sunny, so we can enjoy our travels.

　　Sitting on the roof is also a "travel". As the sky is high, our "travel" is as far away. Look, one by one white clouds, in different shapes, are floating in the blue sky. We clasped our eyes with the sky and embraced the white clouds. Standing on the flat roof and looking around, every yard is a moving landscape: the pomegranate tree of the neighbor in the front is covered with red fruits; the neighbor in the back has flowers for half of the yard; a cat lying on the right He slept soundly on the bicycle seat of the neighbor's house. Looking far away, the mountains in the distance are majestic, and the eyes are full of green; under the mountains are large crops and vegetable fields, and there are still crops that have not been harvested, standing upright like a group of soldiers, waiting for the review of the farmers; the red pepper in the vegetable field Now, there are a few old pumpkins sleeping on the pumpkin vine...

　　At that time, there were many children and few rooms in the house, and the roof was the best place for meeting friends. We can avoid our parents, avoid our brothers and sisters, and go out on the roof to talk about it. That's really nice.

　　I remember that one autumn, the eldest brother of the neighbor Yanyan had a girlfriend, and the eldest brother Yanyan led his girlfriend to climb to the roof. They peeled peanuts on the roof, peeling and peeling, peeling them all afternoon, and they would not come down until dinner time. Yanyan wanted to climb on the roof and call them to eat. Yanyan's mother grabbed her and said, "Don't disturb, they will come down naturally when they are hungry." Later, our children realized that they were peeling peanuts, that they were in a relationship! For young men and women who have known each other recently, the roof is indeed a good place to get to know each other.

　　The time on the roof hides a lot of our fun and dreams. We are looking into the distance from the roof, planning to cross mountains and rivers one day in the future to see the outside world. One daydream after another grew and spread on the flat roof. Later, the old village was renovated, and the houses were built higher and higher, and no one would see any other houses drying food on the roof. We could only look at the autumn colors of that roof in our memories.

　　Nowadays, when I am wandering for half my life, when I am tired, I most want to climb on the roof of my hometown, bask in the autumn, and bask in myself.

 　　In 1770, German philosopher Immanuel Kant wanted to hire an assistant for himself after he was awarded a professorship at Konigsberg University. After the news was sent, applicants gathered. After half a month of investigation, two young people finally entered Kant's vision.

　　Both of these young people are very good. One of them is taller, with careful thinking and strong logic; the other is lower, who likes to seek innovation and is full of vitality. However, due to limited conditions, it is impossible for Kant to recruit both of them as his assistants. He can only reluctantly choose one of them, and the other will leave disappointed.

　　However, choosing which one of them in the end made Kant difficult. After thinking about it for a long time, in the end, to be fair, Kant planned to give them a test question. On the day of the exam, Kant filled a large bathtub with water, and placed two empty buckets, one large and one small, next to him.

　　Finally, he called the two young people to him and said to them: "Which one can scoop up all the water in the bathtub in the shortest time, I will choose him as an assistant." The

　　tall young man listened. After that, he immediately walked to the bathtub, holding the small bucket in his hand, quickly and quickly scooped out the water in the bathtub, and then poured it into the large bucket. When he did this, his actions were consistent and done in one go. In the end, he successfully scooped out all the water in the bathtub in only two and a half minutes.

　　When it was the low young man’s turn, he didn’t like the one before, trying to scoop up the bathtub with buckets of water. He came to the bathtub unhurriedly, bent down, and stretched out his hand. Pulling out the piston at the bottom of the bathtub, standing up, he glanced at the tall man triumphantly, and laughed at the other's dullness in his heart: "What age is it, only fools can do coolies. Don't you know, success depends on It's just wisdom?" The low young man felt that he seemed to have a chance to win.

　　However, what he didn't dream of was that the sewer seemed to be blocked by something, and it was not flowing smoothly at all. Seeing that two minutes had passed, two-thirds of the water in the bathtub did not flow out. The low young man suddenly became flustered and anxious. By the time he thought about grabbing the small wooden bucket around him and scooping water, three or four minutes had passed, not to mention how frustrated he was. It is conceivable that in the end the low young man ended in failure.

　　Kant saw everything in his eyes, and finally he took the low young man's hand and said sincerely: "Although you have not been my assistant, I want to send you a word: No matter when, hard work is itself a kind of The safest wisdom.”

　　In this world, you do need wisdom to behave in the world. However, opportunism can only be regarded as cleverness, but it can never accomplish a big cause. And those who work hard on the ground, no matter how difficult things are, he can get the final success.

 　　India is not a suitable place for shopping. Many Indians have too low income, so naturally they have no interest in shopping. Many Indians who work in companies have a low monthly income of only 1,500 yuan, but this is enough for them to survive. After all, they often do not need to spend much on housing. The house is very dilapidated, but it has been passed down from generation to generation, and the family lived together like that. It feels a bit like a large courtyard in our earlier years.

　　A local friend in India suggested that I buy shoes and sari (traditional Indian clothing), but repeatedly told me to bargain with the determination of "mortal", I asked: "How much discount is this determination of "mortal"? "

　　He said: "A few discounts are still too soft, so you might as well offer a fraction. For example, if the other party wants 960 rupees (1 ruble is about 0.09 yuan), you can boldly say 60 rupees."

　　I was thinking, if I follow this advice to bargain, can I leave India alive? The Indian market is classified. For example, where you sell shoes, all shoes are sold, and where you sell curry, they all sell curry. I traveled through the streets of Jaipur with my friends from India and finally saw a store that looked very serious. It is serious because it is very large, with two floors, full of shoes on the shelves. A man led us to the second floor and sat down on a blanket. He felt that the blanket was about to take off at any time. He sat on it and asked us what we liked.

　　I pointed to the one I liked. He whispered something to a guy, who turned back and carried a big bag. After opening it, it was full of shoes. He said very good for a while, and great for a while, as if he had received Steve Jobs's lecture training, and he was very proud of himself.

　　As long as I have any questions, he folds and folds the shoes, throws them, and pats them to prove the quality of his shoes. I was afraid that he might misunderstand me, so I hurriedly said: "We just bought a pair, not for wholesale. You don't need to be so excited."

　　He said, "It's okay, I will give you the best pair in the store."

　　Then he picked up a pair casually . .

　　I asked: "How much does this pair cost?"

　　He hit the number 1200 with a calculator. I remembered my friend’s advice and pressed 200 on his calculator. He swiped his hand on his neck, meaning you should kill me. However, after my repeated insistence, he still agreed to "kill" him and the deal was concluded. Then he took out the POS machine and asked me to enter the password after pressing the number. I saw, how is it in US dollars?

　　He said, this is the best pair of shoes in our shop, and you agree. I said that buying things in India naturally uses rupees, and he stroked his neck with his hand again. He has died twice in such a short time.

　　He said that rupees would be fine, but the price must be-he pressed 400 on the calculator. I thought to myself, this boss is so capable of bargaining, and he is so cunning, don't cause any death. Suddenly I remembered the warning from my friend before I left, and I must pay attention to my safety. I hurriedly said yes, and rushed out of the store with the packed shoes.

　　I finally failed to wear this pair of the best shoes in their store, because the bottom of it fell off the next day I wore it.

　　But at the time, I couldn't predict its poor lifespan. After we came out of the shoe store, we rushed to the saree store. The owner of the sari shop is very Indian, with a black face and a short figure, but he is wearing a white shirt.

　　I asked him whether the sarees here are priced in rupees or dollars. He said that the rupees range from 1,000 rupees to 10,000 rupees. Although in my opinion, the sari is nothing more than a large piece of silk, but under the various winding methods of the shop owner, it quickly becomes an elegant long skirt. Although the seller's show worn by this chunky boss was not very good, driven by a mentality of "all coming", I bought one for 3,000 rupees.

　　This saree was successfully brought back to China by me, but there was a problem. My wife had washed it 3 times and the water was still dirty. In the end, my wife completely gave up the plan to clean it and cut out a flower on it and placed it in a glass frame as a memorial to my trip to India.

　　When shopping in India, I feel that I have money and I can’t buy any good things. My last shopping was at the gate of the Jaipur Palace. A guy wearing a white shirt that seemed to have no buttons was lying under a tree. Holding some small frames in his arms. When he saw me walking by, he slowly approached me and said, "I painted it myself, you look at it."

　　I saw paintings of various scenic spots and animal themes in Jaipur, decorated with shells, feathers, etc. Then it was sealed with a wooden frame sealed with glass, which was pretty delicate. I looked at him, then looked at his work and asked, "You made it yourself?"

　　He nodded, and then said it's not expensive, 1,200 rupees apiece.

　　I flipped through it and found that there were 3 pictures that I was quite satisfied with, so I told him, "3 pictures for 1,200 rupees." After I walked a few steps, he leaned in and said you can add more. I said there could be no more. This process took about 5 times, and I think he was boring enough. I have a very firm attitude. If I don't give me 3 pictures at 1200 rupees, I will definitely not buy them.

　　Then he didn't follow me anymore. After waiting two hours, I walked out of the palace. He walked up to me and said, "Yes."

　　This buffer time is long enough. I said, "Would you like to think about it again, are you sure?"

　　He said, "I can still paint anyway, let's close the deal."

　　You must think I have met the future Van Gogh or Picasso.

　　I also wanted to express this story that way, but when I got home, I found the mark "Made in China" in the corner of the frame. I have traveled far and wide to help the motherland bring back the artwork that originally belonged to us, but I comforted myself, after all, it has been nurtured by the Indian Ocean and blessed by the Buddha.