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You don't come, i'm not old

   There is a woman who is not young anymore, rushing from left to right, unknowingly standing on the tip of the tail of youth, still wandering leisurely alone. Others were anxious for her and persuaded her: "Don't pick it, the more you pick it, the more dazzling you are, and it's okay to find someone to marry it."

  She laughed, and calmly replied: "I admit, I am not beautiful enough, not elegant enough. Not good enough, not as romantic and passionate as San Mao, not as beautiful and intelligent as Lin Huiyin, not as talented as Zhang Ailing, and not as knowledgeable and knowledgeable as Yang Jiang, I am just an ordinary little woman, but this It does not prevent me from finding a person who is satisfactory. I have the right not to get it."

  Others laughed at her and said she was crazy. When the flowers are gone, they may not be able to wait for the person in my heart. She didn't mind what others said, she still went to get off work and went to see the scenery in the distance, and she had a lively life by herself. She said: "If I can't wait for that person in my life, I'd rather be alone until I

  grow old." It takes a strong heart to pave the way for me to do my own way . If I don't, I need the courage to go against the current. In real life, there are many people who like to leave. Because it’s simpler, going down the river, you don’t have to support it, it’s easier, and you don’t have to compete with yourself. It’s a kind of self-compromise.

  If you are willing to settle down, many things in life can be settled, ranging from the cost of food and clothing to marriage and career.

  When I wake up in the morning, I am almost late for work. I grab a bun and eat a few biscuits. Breakfast is over. There is not much youth left. Xun Mi Mi hasn't found the one you like. Just bite your teeth and forget it. Anyway, and Everyone lives in partnership with each other. You can wear your clothes when they are old, and you can eat as long as you don’t have bad meals. Even big things like marriage can be done if you can’t wait.

  But, don't you feel wronged in this coming day? At an age when you can struggle, choose ease? In the days when you can live out your true temperament, what will your choice be?

  Some time ago, I went to a friend's house as a guest. My friend came back from abroad, seeking a Chinese medicine prescription to treat his family, and temporarily lived in a small rented house. The house was really small, so small that when I turned around, I either touched this object or touched that thing. But this small house was cleaned up by her. The newly painted walls were dazzlingly white. There were green dills hanging in front of the windows. There were succulents on the windowsill. On the desk, there was a long-necked beauty vase for freshness. Lily.

  I sighed: "This flower is really fragrant!" She smiled and said, "This little house is near the sea. This season is a bit humid and musty. Lilies can be filthy."

  An inconspicuous little house was taken care of by her. To be warm and comfortable. Originally it was just a temporary stay, and she didn't need to spend so much thought, but she didn't want to leave it alone. She saw what I was thinking, and said: "I live for a day. I don't want to be too hard for myself. It is good for my mood to look comfortable, not to mention that it doesn't cost much, and it doesn't cost much."

  From my friend's home. , I suddenly felt emotional. Life is not easy to live, and it will be even more difficult if it is not. This is true for the rented small snail house, what about the attitude towards life?

  I have always liked this strong, independent and confident woman. Such a woman is as flexible as a horse lotus, turns green early, has a long green period, and has elegant colors. Even in the remote desert, she can fragrant alone. No matter how much hardship she encounters, no matter how unfair her life is, she will be calm and composed, smile face to face, take care of things, don't panic, don't do it, and live a free and easy life.

  Not to be an attitude, not to be oneself, not to be a life, and to live up to life. You can only become better if you don't be alone; you can only be rewarded if you don't live by yourself. If there is hope in everything, put in 100% effort, and life will not fail you.

  "If you don't come, I'm not old", this is an attitude of life that is not going to end. Life is like a kaleidoscope, with different colors and mysteries, depending on what you insist on and what you want.


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