When I used to write novels, I used to be fully involved and immersed in another world. The characters in the novel experience all kinds of experiences: association, separation, reunion, happiness, sadness... I also cry or laugh at the laptop alone, sometimes even bow my head to the desktop to be overwhelmed with sadness.

　　This situation has remained unchanged for many years. Until one day, I bought a second-hand plush doll—a cow with a fat body, a curved mouth and a smile. I saw it, so I took it home and placed it in the corner near the desk.

　　When I was drawn by writing and immersed in it for a long time, when I turned around, my eyes fell on the doll, and seeing it smiling, smiling gently and quietly, I couldn't help stand up, walk towards it, and hug it deeply. The gentle touch makes me feel like a child's peace. After that, I stopped paying attention to the joys and sorrows of the characters in the novel. When the novel was written, I quickly forgot it in my heart. I started to go out to see the scenery, travel to the beach, and then go to friends to eat, drink and talk...

　　It was this smiling "cow" that took me out of the fictional world. , Back to the real world. When I was dizzy, I looked up at it, as if I was always reminded that people cannot be completely occupied by work.

　　This "cow" is designed to smile instead of crying, to let go of mind, to be friendly and harmonious, rather than to indulge in discomfort. It has a purpose and is a positive suggestion. For most of the people in life, reading, working, and raising a family are all clues, and you need to deal with them like thunder and lightning. But the rhythm of life must be in your own hands, and you must not give it out completely, otherwise you will miss the original intention of working hard and recognize a foreign country as your hometown. We have to find a token and a prop for ourselves to remind ourselves, just like the spinning top in Inception.

　　There are many such things, which vary from person to person. For you, it may be an old photo, an old man’s teaching, a look in a movie, a yellowed letter, a piggy bank, an old antique... They appear in our lives, just like us The motto written in childhood, like the dream coordinates we established when we grow up, like our memorandum of important events, reminds us to slow down and enjoy the surrounding scenery when we go too hurried all the way.

　　Mr. Zhu Guangqian said in the article that there is a car road in the Alps Valley with beautiful scenery on both sides. A placard is inserted on the road to advise visitors: "Go slowly and appreciate it!" Many people live in this world of cars and horses. , Just like driving in a car in the Alpine valley, rushing past in a hurry, without time to look back and wandering around the scenery, so this rich and gorgeous world becomes a boring prison. What a pity this is! So he transferred the slogan to the people of the country.

　　"Go slowly, appreciate it!" This is not to let people slow down for no reason, or to let loose and do nothing serious. To tell the truth, let a person live in an Alpine valley and watch the beautiful scenery slowly, and he will also feel desperate. Those who wander every day have turned a blind eye to the beauty of the world, let alone admiring them.

　　Qian Zhongshu said in "On Happiness": take a bath, look at a flower, eat a meal, if you feel happy, it is not all because the bath is clean, the flowers bloom well, or the dishes suit your taste. Mainly because you have no problems in your heart, a relaxed soul can focus on the feelings of the body, to appreciate and to judge. Therefore, happiness is determined by the spirit. Spiritual alchemy can turn physical pain into a source of happiness. Although there is unhappiness in life, one can still be optimistic. People who are busy day and night, take a short relaxing drive, and feel particularly comfortable and sweet. All we have to do is to fully concentrate on experiencing that moment.

　　Although life is busy and annoying, but still can steal a half-day leisure. The breeze blew across the hills and me; the bright moon hung in the night sky, shining on me. The scenery is beautiful and full of joy. Give yourself a piece of happiness.

　　When you visit northern Belgium, you may see a "weird" scene: in the field, a group of old Belgian men sitting on a bench, 6 feet (1.8 meters) apart, muttering words to the wooden box in front of them, the long wood still in their hands from time to time Draw a stroke on the stick.

　　This is not a religious ceremony, but a traditional Belgian activity: bird fighting.

　　Every summer, in the fields, seashores, trenches, roads, broken bridges, and waste railway tracks in the Flemish region of Belgium, old people with white hair grow all over the mountains and plains and form the "Great Wall of Human Flesh." What they have to do next is very simple, one person, one bird, one stool, and one stick are enough.

　　However, the moment the referee waved the red flag, the old men were full of energy, as if they had installed a motor for life in the evening, whether people or birds, all have to concentrate in this game, in order to achieve "the unity of people and birds." . As a bird fighting master, you must listen carefully, because in the next hour, you have to count how many chicks in the birdcage in front of you, and every time you chirp, you must write a note on the stick in your hand. , Until the "King of Birds" who chatted the most appeared.

　　As a bird, I can't relax in the slightest. They must be male chaffinch with a loud voice and full of air. You can’t make the wrong note, you must be "suske-wiets" to score points. If you make a "susk-e-wiat", you may be disqualified immediately. Veteran players will also tell if this bird sings "French" or "Dutch". If he sings French in Flemish in the Dutch-speaking area, he will really be sweating for the fate of this bird. Very "Belgian".

　　Don't think that these old men are not doing their jobs. This is the traditional intangible cultural heritage of the Flemish region of Belgium, an ancient folk movement that has been maintained for more than 400 years. According to records, as early as 1596, Flemish merchants held a "fighting" event. Although it does not seem to have much technical content, every old Belgian man has a lot of energy for the "fighting bird". In order to create a warm and comfortable environment for the birds, they have to install artificial lights from February and listen to the recording of "susk-e-wiets" to correct their pronunciation.

　　"In fact, there is no successful experience, I think it depends mainly on talent." Philip Santens, the owner of the chaffinch, who has won 5 games, said. In fact, behind the scenes, he secretly listened to the heavy metals in "Guns and Roses" to his finches and fed high-protein foods. There are more than 13,000 "finch enthusiasts" like Philip in Belgium, and they raise about 10,000 finches each year.

　　Why do Belgians love fighting birds? Maybe no one can explain it clearly. But the sport of fighting sparrows really fits the character of the Belgians too much. In Belgium, there is an inexplicable "childish and boring" happiness.

　　For example, there is a strange tradition in the Belgian coastal areas-horse-riding shrimp fishing. The fishermen rode on their horses and walked quietly along the beach, dragging a funnel-shaped net behind the horses. As for whether they can catch fish and shrimps, all depends on luck. But this "Buddhism" movement may not be as simple as it seems. Fisherman Eddie de Helst told reporters, "Don't look at us riding on horseback like a daze. In fact, everyone has to face the ocean, Tides and horses have a huge amount of knowledge and ability to control".

　　On the other side of Belgium, the residents of the small town of Malmedy are not idle either. Every year on August 15th, they will hold an event-spread a huge omelette. 14,000 townspeople gathered together. In front of them was a large pot measuring 13 feet (about 4 meters) in diameter. There were 10,000 eggs and many pounds of duck meat in it. They insisted on such an activity. It's almost 50 years.

　　This is also the reason why I like Belgium: here, boredom is never a derogatory term. You can do whatever meaningless things you want, whether you want to fight birds, go fishing on horseback, or spread omelettes, without worrying about wasting your time and life

 　　1. There are two women named Patricia in the United States who have the same social security number due to a computer error. When they were called to correct the wrong number, people discovered that

　　they were named Patricia Ann Campbell after they were born;

　　their fathers were Robert Campbell;

　　their birthdays were both on March 13, 1941;

　　They both married soldiers in 1959, only 11 days before the date;

　　they both had two children at the age of 19 and 21 respectively;

　　they both love oil painting;

　　they both studied beauty;

　　they both worked as librarians .

　　2. In 1893 Henry Siegland broke up with his girlfriend, which led to his girlfriend's suicide. The girlfriend's brother ran to Henry's house, found him in the garden, and shot him. Fortunately, the bullet only scratched Henry's face and got stuck in a tree.

　　1913-Twenty years after the incident, Henry decided to blow up a tree in the garden with explosives. The explosion shot the bullet originally embedded in the tree directly into Henry Siege's head-he was shot dead on the spot.

　　3. On December 5, 1660, a ship sank in the Dover channel. The only survivor was Hugh Williams.

　　On December 5, 1767, another ship sank in the same waters, killing 127 people. The only survivor was Hugh Williams.

　　On August 8, 1820, a picnic boat capsized on the Thames. There was only one survivor named Hugh Williams.

　　On July 10, 1940, a British trawler was blown up by a German mine. Only two survived-a man and his nephew, both named Hugh Williams.

　　4. Mr. MacDonald is a farmer in Canada, and his postcode is composed of the letter sequence EIEIO. (There is a very famous children's song in the West called "Old Mr. MacDonald Has a Farm." "EIEIO" is repeatedly sung in the lyrics to imitate the sounds of animals.)

　　5. In 1996, the Paris police began an investigation In a late-night speeding collision, the drivers of both vehicles died on the spot. Investigation revealed that the deceased was a husband and wife. At first the police suspected that this was some kind of murder or suicide agreement, but the facts showed that the couple had been separated for several months. This was just a terrible coincidence.

　　6. Michael Dick traveled to England with his family, looking for his daughter Lisa, who was lost ten years ago. After trying unsuccessfully, he came to the Suffolk Free Newspaper, and they promised to publish an announcement for him.

　　Fortunately, his long-lost daughter saw the announcement and the family reunited. Strangely, his daughter was behind him when the photos were taken in the free newspaper.

　　7. In 1990, a student of Argonaut High School in North Wales had to take the Intermediate General Certificate of Education Examination.

　　His name is James, and his test paper number is 007.

　　8. In 1965, four-year-old Roger Roussel encountered danger while swimming on Salem Beach and almost drowned. A woman named Alice Blaise rescued him.

　　In 1974, it was still on that beach and Roger went out to sea in a raft. He rescued a man from the water-it was Alice Blaise's husband who was rescued.

　　9. In the last year of the First World War, the British cavalry officer Major Summerford fought on the battlefield in Flanders. A lightning smashed him off his horse, paralyzing him from the waist down.

　　Six years later, he moved to Vancouver, Canada. Once he went out fishing, Major Summerford was struck by lightning again and his right side was paralyzed.

　　On a summer day after two years of recovery, he came to a local park. Suddenly, a heavy rain fell and lightning struck him again, causing him to be paralyzed for life.

　　Two years later, he passed away. In the fourth year after his death, his stone tomb was destroyed by lightning!

　　10. The businessman Danny Detoit gave a public speech in South Africa. The topic was: Beware, death can take you away at any time.

　　At the end of the speech, he stuffed a mint into his mouth and choked to death.

 　　Recently, I often see my friends in the company after lunch, taking out colorful pills from a few exquisite bottles and cans and swallowing them, and carefully asked these young colleagues who advertised "punk health". These pills turned out to be bowling capsules. , Grape seeds, milk thistle, anti-sugar pills, etc., in response to the Internet buzzword "young people stay the latest night, put on the most expensive mask", and now there is another line of "the most expensive health care product." ".

　　In recent years, a number of emerging consumer brands have quickly been favored and sought after by consumers. The reason is that they have formed products in terms of product positioning, brand marketing, and channel integration after fully insight and research on target groups, media platforms, and sales paths. With a novel and unique style of play, it occupied the minds of young users in a shorter period of time, and created a set of niche behaviors for a new consumer brand.

Trend genes in the middle age

　　The leap in the consumption era must be due to changes in the consumer population. Today, a large number of post-90s and post-95s have become the backbone of new consumption with consumption upgrades, among which post-95s have huge consumption potential. They have different consumption concepts from other people, and they are more concerned about the product's appearance, quality, consumption experience, cost-effectiveness and other factors, pursuing individuality and trends, such as staying up late to maintain health and sustaining life, and advanced consumption is only for the pleasure of interest and find new curiosities. Become a psychological normal...These characteristics of the population have injected new opportunities into the entire consumer market.

　　The primary goal of new consumer brands is to match the young people’s focus on trends, anchor sub-categories from major categories, combine product functions with crowd interests, and use this as a breakthrough in the market of major brands It tears a hole in the middle and builds it into a trendy brand for a specific niche. I call this strategy trend positioning.

　　"Health" is undoubtedly a big pain point for this generation of young people, and it will drive many subdivision consumption tracks such as health preservation and meal replacement into a trend. The up-and-coming brand WonderLab entered the track with the "Little Fat Bottle" meal replacement milkshake, and quickly became a hot product that swept the entire network through the flavor and taste of milk tea it created.

　　Different from past meal replacement products, WonderLab uses a small bottle packaging that combines fashion and sportiness, which is more in line with the personality and avant-garde psychological needs of users; at the same time, chewable particles are added to various flavors of milkshakes to make "meal replacement" The ingredients are real and visible; based on solid product strength, WonderLab has put the concept of milk tea to the end, and co-branded with HeyTea to launch the "drinking milk tea" meal replacement milkshake. Low-fat milkshake and high-calorie milk tea "play" in contrast. Together, they captured the hearts of a large number of post-95 consumer groups on social media.

　　With the triple blessing of appearance, taste, and creativity, WonderLab accurately matched the trendy genes among the young people of the era in the public opinion field. In the first year of its establishment, it sold 30 million bottles of meal replacement milkshakes, creating a young consumer The new consumer health brand of the creator.

Break the game from point to line and then face

　　Benefiting from the traffic dividends brought by the post-90s and post-95s generations, the consumer goods sector has already formed an outlet for new local consumer brands, and this is all closely related to the changes in the brand communication environment.

　　In today's increasingly fragmented and diversified media, consumer groups have been reclassified and gathered to form social circles and consumer circles with common hobbies, attitudes and values. Therefore, no matter what brand, it is very difficult for a set of advertisements to penetrate all markets and groups. Instead, try to cater to the needs of their potential user groups and customize the content they care about and love.

　　Under this circumstance, social media with multiple groups of people has become a platform that connects brands and users. Brands have long output high-quality content on such platforms to communicate and interact with users, and shape brand image through precision marketing and scene marketing. , Let the "ripples" aroused by the brand in the social public opinion field converge into a line, and finally form a joint force to spread across the platform and achieve a breakthrough.

　　For example, on the main line of the hot "national style" in recent years, many national style brands that focus on Chinese culture and fashion trends have emerged. But the Chinese style is not a stacking of Chinese elements. Only the integration of the national style and the brand cultural heritage can make the people of the national style circle have a value resonance.

　　In this regard, Huaxizi, a cutting-edge cosmetics brand, has been recognized by the industry as a leader who has risen by the momentum of the country through a series of marketing actions.

　　Huaxizi places great emphasis on national style in product design. It reproduces the traditional craftsmanship of the East, inherits various exquisite techniques such as micro-carving and relief sculpture, and successfully grafts the national style art to the product, showing the magnificence of beautiful rivers and mountains between square inches. Magnificent beauty.

　　First of all, the most easily sparked spark with Huaxizi is the national style IP "Hanfu circle". The model of cooperation is to actively cooperate with Xitang Hanfu Culture Week and other "national style feasts" in 2020, and create it as a designated makeup brand. "Huaxizi Creative Makeup Competition". At the same time, Huaxizi has established the official Weibo as a social interaction position with fans, recommending makeup strategies suitable for Hanfu style, actively discussing makeup techniques with fans in the comment area, recreating oriental beauties between eyebrows and lips, traditional costume Hanfu and Huaxizi Oriental Make-up has also formed a strong binding.

　　Based on the national style, Huaxizi also spread to pan-national styles such as music, fashion, games, and two-dimensional through cross-border cooperation, reaching more types of potential users and deepening the overall brand awareness. For example, musician Zhou Shen X Fang Wenshan customized the branded song "Hua Xizi" for Huaxizi, and jointly launched the Qixi Festival custom carved lipstick with the popular game "Jianwang 3", and created Huaxizi's virtual image with fans, all of which are helping the brand Fission breaking circle. Huaxizi has created a unique oriental aesthetic in the national style beauty industry, and has played a more advanced level of Chinese style marketing.

　　Guofeng’s interest groups are all generation Z young people in their 20s and their users are very sticky. Huaxizi uses Guofeng as the main line of brand marketing, so that users of different types of Guofeng have a high degree of favorability and loyalty to the brand, establishes the core competitiveness of the brand, and then spreads the brand information to more people in the circle. , Won the blank market share of "National Style No. 1 Beauty".

Synergy of quality and efficiency achieves a "popular heart"

　　Niche brands want to upgrade to the mainstream. After finding the right person and talking to them, the most important thing is to promote conversion through suitable channels.

　　With the sharp increase in marketing expenses and traffic costs, the e-commerce platform has reached a high degree of saturation. It is not that there is less traffic, but more businesses. In particular, the homogeneity of businesses has serious internal volume. Offline stores have penetrated the vast sinking market and still have nowhere to go.

　　Brands that have studied channels have gradually developed a sales model that combines “online detonation + offline coverage”: the brand uses celebrity endorsements and KOL planting grass on social platforms to create and promote popular and popular products. Fire up, quickly seize consumer awareness, and at the same time, based on comprehensive offline channels, carry out large-scale distribution, so that online information can reach target consumers twice, deepen consumers’ impression of the brand, and in such long-term and lasting interactions Continuing to promote sales conversion.

　　Ozark, the leading domestic oatmeal brand, can be regarded as a representative of the successful integration of online and offline channel resources. At the beginning of its establishment, Ozark based on product research and development, on the one hand, built a fully automated production line to create a diversified product matrix, on the other hand, it has proactively expanded offline channels. As of the first half of 2021, Ozark will enter the line There are more than 100,000 offline supermarkets, covering 95% of the offline supermarkets in the country, and the brand market share exceeds 98%.

　　The finishing touch took place in April 2021. Ozark announced on Weibo that the top star Xiao Zhan was the brand spokesperson and became a hot marketing event on the Internet, leveraging the strong social influence and circle of the Weibo platform. Penetration and huge user base have fully detonated the attention and interest of young people and fan groups in Ozark. The 330,000 copies of the Xiao Zhan’s same gift box embedded in the Xiao Zhan’s endorsement blog post were sold out within one hour, and the online GMV was nearly 100 million yuan on that day.

　　Products and materials related to Xiao Zhan have also entered Ozark's offline channels simultaneously, direct contact with the upstart of consumption reaching the "small town youth" in third- and fourth-tier cities. Not only allows consumers who follow Xiao Zhandai's incident online to buy the same model offline, it deepens the brand association between Xiao Zhan and Ozark, and stimulates the emotional resonance of the target population.

　　Through high-gloss online detonation and complete offline deepening, Ozark not only effectively established the brand image, quickly realized the brand transition, but also handed over a dazzling report card, successively boarding the Tmall cutting-edge food sales list and Weibo A number of new consumer brands, such as the pin-not-to-explosive product list, have led the rise of new domestic brands with synergy of product efficiency, and have gradually become the mainstream of consumer recognition.

　　Trend observer James Harkin pointed out in his book Niche Behavior: “The Internet age defines themselves as unique individuals, but they are looking for a sense of belonging all the time. Through surface appeals, deep insights into consumers’ hearts The label pursued is the key to shaping the brand culture of the new era and capturing the trust of consumers’ brands.” In the

　　mobile Internet era, new consumer brands have gradually developed a set of “trend positioning, circle penetration, Channel integration" niche marketing methodology. For most new consumer brands that want to enter the market, aim at a subdivision track that the giants have not yet laid out, and take the lead on this track. Once this strategy works, the new consumer brand will even take a step forward. A solid step for the mainstream.

 　　First of all, we must observe and don't draw conclusions easily; the other is that we need to wait, and many things should not be anxious now; the last is to stick to our basic position and basic value judgments, and not to follow everyone in the chaos.

　　- famous scholar Qian Liqun talk about how to deal with post-crisis era of globalization,

　　surf the Internet has taught us two things: First, some people in this world, even if you run out of words to understand each other can not be with him; and second, even if you're with the People cannot understand each other, and it has no effect on your life.

　　- to lay down their expectations for all

　　to learn their language, learn their thinking, learning their habits, as well as all aspects of their lives. I think that by associating with young people, you can make yourself young, make yourself grounded, and establish a close connection with the most energetic, powerful, and promising group of people in this society. So as not to be eliminated prematurely by this era.

　　—Mo Yan opened a WeChat public account, starting from "I want to chat with young people".

　　Our social data is becoming a kind of "capital." Our age, gender, hobbies, assets in the WeChat wallet... will all become the basis for advertising; our social relationships, who we communicate more intimately with, will also become indicators of algorithm evaluation-through these, the algorithm will know us Is it a group of people who can create "value" better.

　　- Right now, choose not to use micro letter and other mobile social tools significantly more difficult than maintaining a healthy

　　future will determine your altitude, and not what you read in advance the anatomy in the medical field, but in your understanding of the medicine - if you really want to become a A good doctor, it is better to carefully observe and understand the relationship between people, the relationship between people and society, and the relationship between people and nature from now on.

　　-Medicine is "human" studies. Uveitis and fundus experts, victims of vicious injuries Medical doctors Tao Yong events for students determined to apply the Medical University say

　　I do not look forward to what whole life one pair of people, not realistic, and now most want is a cat a dog A house.

　　-@fry

　　I wanted to leave in another way, even though I felt it was never a good thing to say goodbye.

　　- Lionel Messi Barcelona farewell

　　no matter how curious online event, discussed how warm atmosphere, how clever people speak, you still want to focus for even eat, drink, love, these rest on the bottom of the physiological needs . As long as you are satisfied and enjoyed in reality, you will find that the real world is not that bad, it is still good and worthwhile.

　　- writer Wang Xin

　　people of rank to do with what you work, how much, is there a little-known relationship at all. You only have a place in the heart of the person who loves you, nothing more.

 　　A rich man suffered from an eye disease and went to the hospital for an operation and put on a fake eye. The operation was so successful that even the rich man's wife could not see which of his eyes was fake.

　　On this day, the rich man came to his farm and said to a group of working farmers: "I'll make a bet with you, who can guess which eye is false to me, I will double his wages this year; if so If I can’t guess, his wages won’t be paid.”

　　A young farmer walked out from the farm: “I’ll try it. If I guess right, as long as you pay 50 yuan to buy some wine for everyone; If you guess wrong, all my wages will be yours." The rich man laughed excitedly when he heard it. At this time, the farmer said calmly: "The one next to your real eye is just a fake eye, and the one next to your fake eye is just a real eye." The rich man jumped into a rage when he heard it, "You kid, this is shameless!" The farmer smiled apologetically and said, "It was a joke just now. Your left eye was fake."

　　This time it was the rich man's turn to be surprised. His left eye was indeed fake. Because there were so many people to testify, he didn't dare to go back, so he had to pay out 50 yuan, and then walked away angrily.

　　The crowd surrounded the farmer and asked him how he guessed it. The farmer smiled slightly: "I changed my bet, and his right eye immediately showed greed; I teased him, and his right eye immediately showed fierceness. But his left eye did not change twice. That’s why I guessed that the left eye was fake.”

　　The suites of Mr. and Mrs. Jones were full of packages, furniture and boxes. They were so busy that they suddenly heard the doorbell ring.

　　When Mrs. Jones opened the door, she saw a middle-aged woman standing outside. She said she was the neighbor who lived next door. Mrs. Jones invited her in and apologized to her that the room was too messy and there was no place to sit.

　　The middle-aged woman said, "Oh, it’s okay. You don’t have to be polite. I’m here to welcome you to move here. You have to know that in some parts of the city, neighbors are not friendly, and in some residential buildings, neighbors don’t communicate with each other. I don’t even know the person next door. But in our building, everyone is very friendly and harmonious. We are as happy as a family. I believe you will live here happily.” The

　　Jones and his wife looked at each other. , I was surprised. At this time Mrs. Jones said: "But, Madam, we are not new here. We have lived here for two years, and we will move out tomorrow."

 　　What is headphone disease? What problems might occur when using headphones? How to minimize the earphone damage to hearing?

　　As the name suggests, earphone disease should be a collection of a series of uncomfortable symptoms caused by wearing earphones. Since the birth of the Walkman, earphones have entered thousands of households. The superiority of earphones is self-evident. Users can enjoy the sound alone without disturbing other people, and can listen to the sound any place they want. Very much in line with the characteristics of modern people-advocating personal space and not disturbing others. However, with the expansion of the time and scope of earphone use, more and more problems have attracted people's attention, and these problems have also formed the concept of "headphone disease".

　　What problems might occur when using headphones? What are the reasons for these problems? How can we avoid these problems while enjoying the sound?

　　At present, earphones are divided into two types according to the way they are worn: one is the embedded ear canal type, and the other is the ear canal type. The function of human ears is to collect sound and fine-tune the intensity of sound waves. The function of the ear canal is more complicated. It not only collects sound waves and enhances sound wave energy, but also has the ability to clean itself. The latter maintains a nearly aseptic environment in the external auditory canal through the secretion of the cerumen, and the movement of the temporal-mandibular joint will discharge the cerumen in the auditory canal out of the external auditory canal. Of course, these functions can only be achieved when the external auditory canal maintains a normal physiological state.

　　Obviously, the ear-wrapped earphones conform to the general sound characteristics and do not affect the function of the ear canal. Structurally speaking, the effect is very small. The embedded ear canal type has more problems due to direct contact and compression of the external auditory canal: firstly, it is possible to push the cerumen of the external auditory canal into the depths of the external auditory canal. Secondly, it affects the movement of the temporal-mandibular joint and pushes the cerumen of the external auditory canal outwards. Function, the friction between the earphone and the skin of the external auditory canal will cause inflammation of the hair follicles, and the earache and ear swelling will be caused by the earphones pressing the external auditory canal for a long time. Moreover, the earphones are not suitable for cleaning. As the wearing time is prolonged and the wearing is changed, it may cause the spread of diseases. Therefore, in order to avoid the above situation, it is recommended not to wear the earphones for a long time. Generally half an hour is more appropriate. When wearing it, try not to do chewing and other activities of the temporal mandible joint. It is best to use ear-wrapped earphones.

　　The ear is a highly sophisticated organ. It can perceive sounds in the range of 20 to 20,000 Hz. It has a sophisticated system that adjusts the perception according to the level of the sound, so as to avoid damage to the ear. Of course, with age, the function of the ears will tend to degenerate. Excessive sound stimulation has the greatest impact on the ears. Due to the development of industrialization and the production of machinery, the intensity of sound produced by humans has far exceeded that of natural sounds. From the perspective of the evolutionary theory of survival of the fittest, our ears have an impact on natural sounds. The adaptation is not enough to cope with the intensity of the sound produced by humans and achieve the effect of protecting the ears. This makes our ears relatively more and more fragile. The use of headphones aggravated this link.

　　The ear is the only organ in the human body that monitors the surrounding environment in an all-round way. It plays an important role in understanding the surrounding environment and avoiding danger. The wearing of the earphone almost loses this important function. Most people use earphones when walking, running, or riding in transportation, which actually puts us in a very dangerous situation, because at this time it is equivalent to turning off the function of monitoring the surrounding environment in all directions, and the danger outside the line of sight is not very good. If the ground is detected, accidents are easy to happen. Therefore, it is recommended not to use headphones in unfamiliar and complex environments, or to reduce the volume as much as possible during use.

　　Why does the use of headphones affect hearing? First of all, earphones, especially ear canal embedded earphones, transmit sound directly close to the tympanic membrane, and the energy is relatively stronger. However, the current pop music, percussion and other decibels are very high, and it is easy to ignore the strong sound while enjoying music. Ear discomfort; second, when using headphones, the surrounding noise is often relatively large. Use headphones on the basis of this background noise. In order to eliminate the interference of background noise, it is natural to increase the sound intensity and make the ears at too high sound stimulation Among. Because this entertaining music makes people feel happy, it is easy to listen for a long time, so that the ears are exposed to excessively high sound stimulation for a long time. If the inner ear is not properly rested, there will be temporary hearing loss, which will lead to permanent hearing loss over time. Hearing loss caused by strong sound often damages high-frequency hearing first, and the hearing loss of this frequency is not easy to detect, so it is difficult to detect early, so it is ignored. It is not discovered until it is very serious and affects language communication. It's too late.

　　How to minimize the earphone damage to hearing? First of all, the volume should not be too high, and do not pursue the thrill of strong stimulation. Generally 60-70 decibels are more appropriate, and remember that the louder the sound, the shorter the continuous listening time; secondly, don’t wear headphones in a noisy environment. ; Finally, don't wear headphones to listen to music to sleep.

 　　We were too young, I do not know their loved ones will be gone

　　after the New Year, I am 15 years old, and great-grandfather was 100 years old. At the age of 100, I just sighed and sighed. I can't imagine what kind of age it was.

　　But in the past ten years, the Taigong's back has enveloped me like a spring breeze, warming my heart.

　　"Xiao Cong, do you know the grandfather outside the door? He has been staring at you for a long time." The classmate said to me. I glanced over, and an old man in plain clothes was standing in front of the door, looking around. He saw me with a smile on his wrinkled face.

　　It's grandpa, why did he come? How does he know that I am going to school here? I just stared at him stupidly, without saying a word, perhaps because of the embarrassment in my heart. He just looked at me blankly, but his eyes were so eager, his hands swayed slightly, as if he wanted to say something to me. In the end, I was called back by the voices of my friends. I waved to the grandfather, he nodded, turned and left. I glanced back and saw an old, slightly humpback figure drifting away.

　　On the way home from school, I talked to my mother about this, and my mother smiled and said, "Your grandpa is living at my aunt's house these days." In

　　the next few days, I never saw the grandpa again. Until one day when I came home from school, I stepped over the stairs, and suddenly I saw a bunch of sugar cane standing on the wall. I rushed into the house and asked in surprise, "Where is the sugar cane coming out?" I didn't know it, and ignored the grandpa sitting on the sofa.

　　"The grandpa bought it. He walked to the fruit market by himself and carried it here on foot." Mother said. I told Taigong before that I like to eat sugar cane the most, but he remembered it.

　　Looking back again inadvertently, he saw the old man who was smiling and panting. He got up and patted me on the cushion. I stretched out my hands subconsciously, but didn't have the courage to stand beside him. I stood upright in front of him like a piece of wood. I, who usually suffer from ADHD, seem to be cured in this instant. The mother went straight to the grandpa, took the grandpa's hand, and helped him stand up.

　　"Let's eat together." Mother said. The grandpa nodded and shook his head, saying nothing, just leaving. His mother wanted to continue to help him, but he broke free, turned her head, pointed at the sugar cane, smiled and nodded, her eyebrows showed doting.

　　Taigong stubbornly supported the escalator and walked slowly down. The thin, slightly humpback figure stretched infinitely under the reflection of the setting sun. I stretched out my hand and felt empty. Sitting back to that position silently, there is still a trace of residual heat.

　　After that, the grandpa never came to the city again. My mother sometimes said jokingly: "The grandpa is tired from carrying sugarcane on his back. It's such a long distance! What's the strength of such a thin person!"

　　After that, I saw the grandpa and went back to the country for holidays or New Year's holidays. But every time he knew that I was going back, he would stand on the side of the empty playground early with a cane, waiting eagerly. When we left, he stood there quietly and watched. After a long time, he staggered back. Through the car window, the thin back figure kept swaying in the wind, getting smaller and smaller in my line of sight.

　　At the end of this year at the age of 100, Tai Gong left. The mother said that the grandpa walked peacefully.

　　Sugar cane is still my favorite fruit.

　　That thin back figure was dusty in my mind, so clear and so warm!

 　　0 years old: Oh! I dignified a handsome boy, but his hair and eyebrows were all shaved! I heard from my aunt that this is conducive to the thick growth of hair-it is a fallacy! The little MM on the opposite bed ignored me. In protest, began to spit up milk!

　　1 year old: Oh! The hair has finally grown out-but it is sparse, and Grandpa Li next door always said that I just returned to the vulgarity, depressed!

　　2 years old: There is no reason! Isn't it because you are handsome? My mother braided my hair into small braids and started raising me as a girl, in order to protest that I can't go to kindergarten today!

　　3 years old: The aunt in the kindergarten today said that my hair is longer than many small MMs, and I want to cry without tears. However, the grandma of the principal said that I am more beautiful than many little MMs-alas, grandma really saw the essence of things all at once!

　　4 years old: red today to turn away, my first love ah - ohh ohh - red mom to see me crying too much, said one: red fast and sister say goodbye ......

　　5 Years old: Dad is back today! As soon as he saw me dressed as a MM, he was furious, and cut off one of my hair by himself. This beauty in my heart-hehe! Finally recovered the male body! But after looking at the bumpy head in the mirror, I wanted to find a piece of tofu and hit it to death!

　　6 years old: Going to school, hehe! The MM around me is a lot more mature than the kindergarten! At least they agreed that I am a boy-but my dad's haircut skills are still bad. The geography teacher said that the moon is like my head...

　　13 years old: Recently it is popular, so I stayed in the summer very hard. I got my long hair up, and then washed my hair at night. When I went to bed, my face was flushed, my hair was carefully divided, and I went to bed motionless and trembling. It's a pity that I didn't sleep honestly at night, every time I changed from the middle to the mustache-alas! Hard work! It’s better to keep long hair and braid it when you’re young!

　　17 years old: Suddenly fell in love with the representative of the language class, decided to confess, spent 20 yuan to fix the hair and change the hairstyle. When accompanied her home at night, she suddenly said to me that she still likes my original hair partial Looks like-happy current numbs the whole body!

　　20 years old: I worked hard to grow long hair, prepared roses, and prepared to spend a romantic evening with MM, but saw MM with short hair: "Let’s break up-you don’t have me in your heart!" Just remember It was very cold that winter, and the whole body was cold, and my heart was frozen in it-I cut my hair short before February 2 and was scolded by my mother...

　　22 years old: I finally graduated-I suddenly found out when I saw the graduation photos. It may be the last time I have such long hair...

　　25 years old: Oh! Today is Monday again, and I am going to work again-when I went out, my mother was very annoying and cleaned up my hair again. Just about to get impatient, I suddenly found that my mother's hair was all white...

　　28 years old: very good geography Hair, pretending to go on a blind date...

　　30 years old: Watching TV with his wife at night, and the wife suddenly said: "My dear, the hair in front of you seems to be a lot less." Speechless...

　　45 years old: After taking a shower, The wife said softly: "I'll dye your hair for you. It's a lot whiter-the black one can't cover it..."

　　55 years old: This morning, the last black hair also fell out... Alas! Collect it-I was young once!

　　60 years old: I carefully combed my hair in the morning, combing the surroundings in the middle, in the words of my daughter, it is the local support center...

　　65 years old: Said to his wife very self-deprecatingly: Now I can finally count how many hairs there are ...

　　70 years old: Lying on the hospital bed, my wife gently combed the few hairs for me... I want to say it again-I love her!

　　In the end, I smiled on the tombstone. Is it because my hair has returned to the previous amount?

 　　I have a friend who used to work as a surgeon in a primary hospital. By chance, he was seconded to a hospital in the city to help.

　　Secondments are common in our industry. Generally, they help out when there is a shortage of manpower, and they will not assign particularly important tasks. After the situation has eased a little, they will be transferred back. For friends, this is a bit of an overkill.

　　Unexpectedly, my friends would be busier than before when they went there. After performing the operation in his group, he still has to observe the operations of other groups; when other doctors cannot find an assistant, he will take the initiative to help; encounter those uncommon cases, even if he does not have to go to the operating table, he still Will go to the operating room to observe and learn.

　　What's rare is that, under such a high-intensity work, we have never heard him say a word of complaint.

　　Someone once persuaded him to do his job well, and he had to come back after the secondment. He said that the opportunity is rare, and he should take advantage of this time to learn more. Cooperating with other doctors to perform surgery is the best way to learn. You can watch their manipulation steps up close, learn quickly, and remember.

　　When the secondment was about to end, the director of the hospital asked the original unit to keep him, and he became the only person who was promoted through the secondment. My friend excitedly told us the good news, and even said "lucky" several times. But in fact, not everyone is qualified to catch this "lucky". If you change to another person and don't make such an effort, I'm afraid you won't be able to seize this opportunity.

　　A person can do things that are good for growth without fear of giving, regardless of gains or losses. These accumulations will one day explode. There is no such thing as good luck that falls from the sky in the world. All the time comes and goes, it is a leap after a long time of accumulating energy.

　　Last year, my girlfriend's company set up a 5-person working group, and she was one of the team members. The new team needs a person responsible for the docking work, but there is no corresponding position and salary subsidy. In the face of ungracious contributions and no corresponding rewards, everyone was a little bit shy, and my girlfriend stood up and took up the task.

　　Because of her low qualifications, her colleagues reluctantly cooperated when the work was arranged, and many things that no one wanted to deal with became her business. Sometimes there were mistakes in work, and the superiors called and gave a slap in the face. She felt very wronged in her heart. Fortunately, she is not an easy person to give up.

　　She actively finds ways to solve the hurdles encountered at work, and will not ask for advice everywhere; when colleagues are dissatisfied with the assignments, she keeps optimizing and trying better assignment models, for which she also learns management and communication skills. In just half a year, my girlfriends have grown rapidly, and their work has become more and more smooth. This post that everyone disliked at the beginning also brought her unexpected gains: this year the team added new members, the entire team expanded into a new department, and she was naturally promoted to supervisor.

　　In areas where ordinary people are unwilling to set foot in, there are often opportunities that ordinary people cannot see. Most things that make people good are not easy, and they don’t show obvious results from the beginning. Work hard until you can see the results, the opportunity has already been missed.

　　I really like a sentence: where you spend your time, where is your harvest. The gap between people is opened in a bit of time. It is precisely because some people are willing to spend more time studying things that others don't care about, they have more gains and growth than others.

　　Everyone has a desire to make themselves better, but there has never been an easy way to do so in the world. For trees to flourish, it is necessary to take root downwards, and for flowers to be delicate and beautiful, it is necessary for them to be budding, and the growth of human beings is the same, and it needs to go through thousands of trials. Unwilling to work harder than others, but dreaming about living a life better than others, is tantamount to a fantasy.

　　The way up is always hard. Instead of sighing after a missed opportunity, it is better to do your best before the opportunity comes. When the time is immature, concentrate on practicing, and only when the time comes can you take advantage of the trend.

 　　A wanderer away from his hometown is prone to homesickness. Dreaming of even a wisp of cooking smoke in your hometown will make you feel moved and your eyes will be full of tears. The longer the parting time, the stronger the homesickness. It's like a mellow brew, you get drunk when you drink it.

　　My hometown is in the Inner Mongolia Plateau where Ma Ming Jingyue. The vast grassland on the Inner Mongolia Plateau has its unique character and scenery. The wind is refreshing and contains the qualities of snow. The clouds are white, with the epitome of sheep in between. The grass is emerald green and tender, exuding the scent of milk. The bark spreads high and far away. It feels like it is coming from the stars in the middle of the night. The sky is like a dome, covering all fields, which means that it is vast and vast. As far as the eye can see, the world is connected, and only the far-reaching shadow of water vapor can bring out its vast outline.

　　In childhood, people generally turn a blind eye to everything in their hometown, because they are close at hand and don't care much about it. However, once far away, there will be heart-piercing thoughts and recollections fluctuating in my heart.

　　For example-I have a fragrance of milk tea.

　　Milk tea is the tea of ​​life for people in the prairie, and it is inseparable from it for a while. For Mongolian women, the first thing to do in the morning is to put the calf to suck breast milk, and then start milking. After milking, the milk tea is brewed. The tea is old bricks, and the milk is fresh milk that has just been squeezed.

　　Laoqingzhuan belongs to black tea (also black tea) in the classification of tea, and it is also called frontier tea. It is made by fermenting older tea stalks and tea stalks, and is a poor product in tea. Because it has the effects of dispelling greasy and promoting digestion, it is more suitable for pastoral areas where meat is commonly used. Generally, blue brick milk tea is boiled in a pot: wrap the tea tightly with gauze, put it in the pot, and boil it. When the brown color turns black and red, remove the gauze bag and add salt and milk. Add fried rice and butter when drinking. In the meantime, the housewife used a small bowl with a big copper spoon to boil continuously, which took about five to ten minutes. The movements are rhythmic and beautiful. It's not light or heavy, and it doesn't splash out, just like a diver filed into the water. Until the tea and milk blend, a strong milk tea fragrance is released. That scent is very attractive, it is a very special one. Originally, water, rice, salt, tea, and butter each have their own fragrance. They are organically fused together, and what they emit is Qixiang or Tianxiang.

　　Milk tea is the shepherd's favorite. Therefore, there is a saying that "I would rather have no food for three days than a day without tea".

　　Those who want to come to the grassland to drink milk tea, I advise him to choose August. You can sit in a yurt, deep-fried fruit, milk tofu, and then put some pure milk skin in a tea bowl, or cut a few pieces of grilled meat and chew slowly. Like this, you are a real prairie man. While drinking milk tea, he looked past the door of the private room. Outside the door was an endless green grass field extending to the place where the heaven and the earth met. The cattle and sheep that are widely spread here and there are like moving patterns inlaid on a green felt carpet, which has a special meaning.

　　Under the long ropes of the little calf, there are all kinds of weeds and flowers, which makes the little calf moo with emotion. The huge shepherd dog (prairie mastiff), lying quietly beside the sheepfold, does not forget to watch vigilantly. It is the most trusted friend of the shepherd. It is commonplace for a shepherd dog to keep guarding the host for life without abandoning it. I have never heard of anyone who ran away from home and did not return. I have observed their behavior at night, and I am certain that none of them fell asleep and lost their defense. In other words, they lived through night after night in a state of half asleep and half awake. Only when she smelled the mistress's milk tea began to fragrant, did she fall asleep boldly. Like a guard with a knife in the starry night, he slept with the knife after the change of guard.

　　The fragrance of milk tea is an ordinary life content on the grassland, and no one takes it seriously. However, when you are far away from home and cannot smell the innate scent, you will feel panic in your heart. Then, I went to the scene in a daze, clicked on the most typical segment, and repeatedly projected it on the screen of the soul. This is called, sweet homesickness. Regarding the past of the fragrance of milk tea, I have two memories to tell you: The

　　first thing happened in the Durbert grassland on the border of Northland. At that time, the borders of Northland were not very peaceful, and incidents of wiping guns and accidents often occurred. I was sent to a border guard company to gather the wind, and because it was too late, I first moved into a shepherd's house. The old Eji at home, with white hair and a kind face, treats me like a faraway son. Smiling at me, there are always interjections of Huo Ruohe and Huo Ruohe (Mongolian, poor meaning) in the words. This is just a tone, which implies intimacy and compassion.

　　After riding a horse for a whole day, my bones fell apart, and I fell asleep as soon as I was palming the lamp. In the middle of the night, I was suddenly awakened by a strong aroma of milk tea. Thinking that the sky was bright, she turned over and sat up, opened her eyes and saw that the fire of Eji was burning, a pot of milk tea was boiling there, and she kept boiling with a copper spoon, focusing on nothing else. Gu. Under the dim light of the dim fire, I suddenly felt that she was a bodhisattva, with endless compassion and a little anxiety in her eyebrows.

　　I asked Eji softly, who was making tea in the middle of the night? She sighed and said, Huo Ruohe, the night is so cold and the snow is so big, where the children have gone? It's time to come back and warm yourself up with a sip of hot tea! Oh, the children she was talking about must be the border guards patrolling Xueye undoubtedly. I suddenly woke up. After a short while, she put down the copper spoon in her hand, stood up slowly with her kneecap, walked out of the door, and looked towards the north. Obviously, the anxiety between her eyebrows was constantly enlarged by the wind and snow.

　　Yes, she is the Bodhisattva on our grassland.

　　Later, I wrote a short poem "The Fragrance of Milk Tea" (November 1972), which was probably published in the Inner Mongolia Daily in 1973. The young painter Mr. Hu Jun has a picture: a yurt stands alone in the wind and snow, a blue smoke rises from the yurt (the skylight above the yurt), and the chrysanthemum yellow light from the door seems very faint. An old Eji wears a red sandalwood Mongolian robe with buttons on his left hand and a pergola on his right. A shepherd dog looked up at its owner. It seems to read the anxiety and expectation in the owner's heart.

　　Since then, words such as fragrant milk tea and frankincense will appear frequently. Friends teased that I was the first person to create the term "milk tea fragrance". I dare not claim this as unique. However, it is true that this poem has had a wider social impact.

　　The other happened in the early autumn of 1963. That year, together with Yun Shengwang, the director of the Office of the People’s Committee of our Banner, and my junior classmate Gegen Tuya, I was transferred to the Baiyinwula brigade of Honggeer Commune, Wangqi, Wangqi, to work for one year. This is a system for cadres to participate in labor training that was implemented at that time, and it is rotated every year.

　　The Baiyinhonggeer grassland is quiet as a dream, and the autumn breeze arrives as scheduled. The production team asked us to go to a winter camp, set up a plank to hit the wall, and create a sheepfold. It was an extremely heavy physical task. First, set up a two-foot-wide and three-meter-long wooden frame, then lift the soil to add to the gap, and then use a wooden hammer to tighten the half-dry and half-wet scattered soil. Yan tamping. Then, increase the height layer by layer until the sheep can't jump out.

　　After working for a day, we feel exhausted and fall asleep as soon as we lie down until the next morning. Even dreams can’t be done.

　　Only one old Eji, one of her cows and small calves, and one shepherd stayed behind in this winter camp. Everyone in the team called her Duguima Erji. I remember that on the first day of work, we worked until ten o'clock in the morning, already sweating, with dry mouth, lying on the grass to rest, and instantly fell asleep. Suddenly, someone was calling us softly: the children wake up, get up to drink milk tea, eat some milk food, Huo Ruohe, Huo Ruohe, are exhausted into sand onions in the cool sun.

　　When I opened my eyes, Eji brought us a copper jug ​​of milk tea that had just been brewed, as well as milk and noodles. She put the refined wooden bowls with silver rims in front of us one by one, and began to pour milk tea for us. The breeze whipped her long silver hair, reminding me of a white grass fluttering in the wind. A strong scent of milk tea rushes through our noses, rushes into the lungs, even into the bones and soul, so that our hearts can be comforted and moisturized in an instant. We drank one bowl after another without saying thank you. Eji sat across from us, smiling kindly and quietly, watching us sipping milk tea. The shepherd dog Niiga (meaning flying dog) next to her, with a long tongue, is also looking at us friendly. This situation and situation is like a "Picture of Compassion Bodhisattva Life-Saving", imprinted in my heart forever. The scent of milk tea always floats in my deep memory.

　　The autumn breeze blows the grass, and the moon shines on the plateau. This kind of compassionate drama is probably only suitable for staged on such a vast and tranquil green meadow, right? In the days to come, every morning and afternoon, the hot milk tea in Eji will fragrant on our construction site as scheduled. Floating until the end of construction, we left.

　　Today, nearly 60 years have passed away like smoke and water. But the fragrance of the pot of milk tea in Eji didn't drift away. In my indulgent memories and long-lasting dreams, I have been floating, floating...

 　　When I was in the fourth grade, one evening, when I came home from school, I saw a brand new mountain bike at the door. My father smiled and said to me: "This is for you!"

　　The life of riding a stroller is finally over! I was very happy and immediately put down my schoolbag and rode it out of the yard. Both my father and mother told me to ride slower. Although I told them aloud that I would, as soon as I rode on the road, I immediately put my parents' words behind my head-the feeling of riding a mountain bike is really wonderful.

　　There are few people on the roads in the community, and nothing prevents me from riding fast. At an intersection, I planned to turn right and ride towards the court, but when I turned the corner, I was taken aback. My neighbor, Mrs. Galila, was coming from the opposite side. The rose tree on the side of the road grew too high and too lush, and I didn't see her at all before turning. I didn’t have time to brake, and ran into Mrs. Garila in panic. Fortunately, Mrs. Garila didn’t fall. My wheel rushed to her crotch and her hands pressed tightly against the front of my car.

　　Go on... "Hey, kid, you need to ride slower!" Mrs. Garila said with a smile.

　　"It's not my fault, Mrs. Jalila, look at these rose trees. They are too tall and too lush. They block my sight." I said, "What's more, why are you walking among these rose trees? What about next to you? That way, people can’t see you, you can’t walk like this anymore.”

　　Mrs. Garila looked at me in a daze, then she shook her head and walked away... After

　　I played on the court for a long time When it was dark, I rode my bicycle back home, and I said to my father very proudly: "Father, do you know? I just said Mrs. Garilah speechlessly!"

　　"What happened to her? But a good person!" Father said.

　　"Just now I ran into Mrs. Galila while turning a corner. She asked me to ride a little bit slower, but I told her that it was all because the rose trees were too lush and blocked my view, and I blamed her for not Walking next to the rose tree, she was speechless by me!" I said with a laugh.

　　"Child, you made two mistakes. The first mistake was to ride a bicycle too fast, but this is just a small mistake. As long as you can sincerely apologize, others will forgive you, but you have chosen to maintain the mistake and put everything into account. They are all shunned to the rose tree and Mrs. Kalila. You think that Mrs. Kalila was speechless by you. It is just that she is disappointed in you. In Mrs. Kalila’s eyes, you are unwilling to admit your mistakes. People!" Father shook his head and said, "Child, you must remember that mistakes are the least worthy of maintenance in the world. The more you maintain, the greater your mistakes will be."

　　"Father, now I should How to do it?" I began to regret, and I hope I can make up for it. My father encouraged me and said: "Child, as long as you are sincere enough, you will think of a way!"

　　I thought for a long time, and finally I went to Mrs. Galila's house. , When Mrs. Kalila came out to open the door for me, I said to her: "Mrs. Kalila, I'm really sorry. It was all my fault just now. I apologize to you and please accept my apology."

　　Mrs. Kalila She laughed haha, she put me in her arms and said, "Little guy, I accept your apology, and I want to tell you that I am proud of you!" Since

　　then, Mrs. Garila and I have always been good neighbors. , And still good friends.

　　Mistakes are the least worth maintaining thing in the world! I am very grateful to my father for telling me this sentence. Things in the world are really wonderful. When you keep on defending your mistakes, the mistakes you make will get bigger and bigger, and you will get bored more and more; and as long as you dare to admit your mistakes and correct them, The mistakes you make are no longer important, and you can even win the favor and trust of more people.

 　　What you see is not the world.

　　The happiness of a wise man is partly safe, without asking others to know; but the joy of ordinary people is thrilling and moving, and they can’t wait to be told. The wrath of the cunning man is a dark tide, covered with a sweet smile; the wrath of the upright man is an open flame, which is unobstructed.

　　An expression, summing up an emotion, turns out to be unreliable. The same is the joy, anger, sorrow, and joy, but also people are different.

　　Pain, or the eve of blooming. Joy, too much like a fleeting gust of wind. Anger is a misfired passion. Worry is mostly just a redundant and unhelpful thing. Missing is a moonlight full of water, full when the moon rises, and receding when the sun rises. Panicked, the duckweed in the waves suddenly arrived, and suddenly it was far away. Happiness is not a destination, but daily homework. It is not a rush to happiness, but a step into happiness...

　　Emotions are not all truth. Where does happiness come from, where does anger arise, where does grief dissipate, there is no context, and the emotions you read are just one-sided words.

　　A person is always playing with loneliness, and he will enjoy himself when he is lonely; when he is backlashed by loneliness, he will be eager to talk and listen. Talk about loneliness and discoloration? Not at all.

　　Concepts cannot be used to recognize the living and free world. Just like a label, it cannot be used to decipher a lively person.

　　Passionate singing and hysterical anger are just performances. No matter how tall you stand, you will crawl on the ground, rubbing the mountains, rivers, and fireworks. People who have been struggling in sorrow for a long time will also clenched their fists, looking at the dawn.

　　This is the real world.

 　　1 When

　　he was 3 years old, he was playing in the square in front of his house, always wanting to climb high steps.

　　You remind him: "Baby, it hurts to fall off the steps."

　　But after you talked to the neighbor for a while, he still climbed the steps and fell from the top, so he was lying on the ground with pain. Wow crying.

　　You could criticize him like your mother criticized you when you were a child: "How did I remind you that it hurts to fall down? You don't listen! Cry, cry, why cry?"

　　But you thought about it, ran over and hugged him. Staying with him, holding him in his arms, and constantly stroking his back: "Baby, it must be very painful, mom knows it hurts, next time you climb higher, can you invite mom to participate together?"

　　2

　　He When I was 5 years old, I was sitting at the table for dinner, spilling the food everywhere, and accidentally smashed the soup bowl.

　　You hurriedly cleaned up the mess, wanting to accuse him in a frantic manner: "How many times has my mother said, put the vegetables in the small bowl in front of you, don't jab the bowl with chopsticks, just poke the bowl to the ground and break it."

　　But, when you remembered that when you were a child, because you accidentally broke the bowl to pieces, you were afraid of being scolded by adults, you slowly put the rotten bowl into the trash bag, and hugged the child who had made a mistake and bowed his head silently.

　　Then, he picked up the chopsticks and showed him how to pick up the dishes, how to put them in the bowl, if they can’t reach them, how to ask their mother for help, if they want to drink soup, how to put down the chopsticks first, and how to hold the soup bowl with both hands.

　　3 When

　　he was 7 years old, he came back from the exam and got an 83-point math paper: 45 people in the class, 30 people all got more than 90 points in the test.

　　The reason why he was so low on the test was either because he didn't review the questions carefully, or because he missed one. Looking at such a simple paper and such unsatisfactory results, you really want to get furious: "Look at your class xxx, why do people get 100 points every time? You are so careless, how can you pass the university entrance exam in the future? University, what can you do?"

　　But when you think about the past when you were too scared to go home because you failed in maths when you were a child, you kindly walked up to him, shook his little hand, and said, "Come on, let’s take a look at what’s wrong and look for it. Eat the 17-point little monster, and we will defeat it together!"

　　He hugged you as soon as your voice fell. He blushed and said, "Mom, thank you for not blaming me. I will definitely get rid of the sloppy problems in the future. "

　　4 When

　　he was 12 years old, he was almost as tall as you, his voice became hoarse, his mouth grew beard, he no longer sticks to you like he did when he was a child, and he often shut himself in the room when he returned home.

　　You can no longer see what is right or wrong in his homework, and his heart rarely opens to you.

　　When you talked about a topic at the dinner table, when you want to discuss with him, he often rolls your eyes: "What do you know?"

　　He was once tired of learning, obsessed with games, regarded teachers as enemies, parents as enemies, and learning For pain.

　　Seeing him stabbing and stabbing someone, you wonder if he was born by you, and you want to rush up to slap him, then stomped and said, "I'm thrifty and work hard. Making money, how much sullenness you have suffered, getting up early and greedy the clarinet, and taking care of you, are you worthy of me?"

　　But you thought about it and decided to take another approach.

　　You tell him: You can skip homework, just play games, or not go to school, or you can play 20-minute games after you finish your homework. Use your grades to hit the teacher and let the teacher look at him with admiration.

　　He returned to school after playing games at home for three days. The reason was that playing games every day was actually very boring. It would be better to go to school and have classmates.

　　5

　　He is 17 years old, a head taller than you, feet like a boat, amazing appetite, stubborn personality, unwilling to admit defeat, loves to fight injustice, likes to argue with people, and therefore causes trouble.

　　The teacher called you and said that he had quarreled with his roommate because of a sock, and he wanted to beat each other. Please come to school.

　　At that time, you just finished the criticism from the leader, full of anger and anxiety, and drove to the school. After apologizing to his roommate and teacher, you dragged him into the car.

　　Along the way, you think about the pressure of work, think of the exclusion of colleagues, think of his troubles, desperate and frustrated you, you want to shout at him: "You see how busy I am, do you still mess with me every day? You? In addition to misfortune, in addition to adding blockages, what else would you do?"

　　But through the rearview mirror, you see his strong but immature body, his cold and confused eyes, you think that when he was in your belly, you were the biggest The wish is that he can grow up healthy and happy, not that he becomes a good and decent child, you suddenly feel a little guilty.

　　Rest at night, you went to the den, watching his homework back, said:. "I think, if my roommate deliberately put dirty socks on my bed, I will be a big fight and she's"

　　heard With these words of yours, his shoulders suddenly shook violently when he lowered his head to do the question.

　　You walk over and hug him.

　　6 When

　　he was 25, he graduated from an ordinary university and found an ordinary job with a meager salary. He has not yet found a target.

　　During the Spring Festival, relatives gathered together and compared their children with each other, how much annual salary they took, what kind of object they were looking for, and what kind of house they bought, and then they ran on his mediocrity in secret.

　　He was a little embarrassed, got up and went to the bathroom. You really want to take the words of your relatives, and then say: "Oh, this kid in my family is nothing promising."

　　But you smiled, and then firmly and forcefully said: "I'm really happy for your children, but I am also proud of my son. He doesn't make much money, but he saves a little every month to prepare for the down payment. He has no partners, but he does not fall in love casually. I think this is also very good."

　　After you said this, he came out of the bathroom, sat next to you, shook your cold hand with his wide hand, and then quietly said to you: "Thank you, Mom."

　　7

　　When he was 31 years old, he finally bought a house, got married, and had children.

　　He is still very ordinary, but every month he will take the subway from the other end of the city back to see you.

　　He didn't have much money, but when he saw you were afraid of the cold, he quietly installed a radiator in your room.

　　He doesn't talk much, but on your 60th birthday, he cooks a table for you and secretly put 600 yuan under your pillow.

　　You really want to hug him, just like he did when he was a kid, but when you saw him feeding the baby milk powder, helping his wife to buy things, and answering the phone for a while, you can only stand at the door and hug yourself with your arms crossed. .

　　8 When

　　he was 40 years old, you fell ill, a very serious illness, chemotherapy and radiotherapy after surgery.

　　He took a long vacation, stayed by the bed all day, took you to the hospital, held you for such and other examinations, and turned you over to give you medicine, never annoying.

　　When he hugged you, you saw the white hair on his sideburns, thinking that he was no longer young, you hugged him more tightly.

　　One evening, he was sitting by the bed and peeling you your favorite orange. He suddenly said slowly: "Mom, I love you."

　　You were stunned there, and the orange fell from your hand to the white sheet. Above: Since he entered the rebellious period at the age of 12, he hasn't said this again.

　　He went on to say: "Mom, although I am not the best son in the world, you are the best mother in the world. When I was 3 years old, I didn't listen to you and fell off the steps. Although you were scared, you were still tight. Hold me tightly. But after that, when I go up any steps, I will be very careful. I am afraid that you are worried; when I was 5 years old, I broke the bowl and thought you would kill me. Not only did you not have it, but also taught me how to use it. Chopsticks. Since then, I learned to eat and never broke a bowl; when I was 7 years old, I had poor grades and thought you would dislike me. In the end, you just patiently helped me analyze the cause of my mistakes and encouraged me to make progress every day. Little bit; when I was 12 years old, I played truant and became addicted to online games, and became a bad boy in the teacher's mouth, but you don’t think so. You let me choose. It was your acceptance that made me suddenly realize that I was against you. In the end It was myself that was ruined; when I was 17 years old, I was rebellious and anxious. I suffered from insomnia every day and almost didn’t want to live. It was your empathy that made me understand that there are still people in this world who understand me and have always loved me; when I was 25 years old, , I was ridiculed by my relatives because I was not promising, but you listed my strengths and said that I am proud of me... Mom, do you know? Whenever I am too sad to go on, I will think of you. Miss your embrace and face , You are calm and peaceful, and then feel that you have to persevere and continue to work hard."

　　You listened to what he said, holding his orange peeling hand, crying like a one-year-old child.

　　9 When

　　he was 42 years old, you closed your eyes in his arms, skinny as wood, but quiet and peaceful.

　　He asked someone to draw a picture at home: a kind-faced mother holding a baby in her swaddle. Beside the painting, there is a line of words engraved: This is a mother who rarely preaches, but her hug trumps all truth.

 　　 In the summer and autumn seasons, many young parents become nervous, because these two seasons are times when gastroenteritis is raging. Especially in summer, due to the hot weather, many children like to eat cold food, and they are prone to diarrhea.

Find the culprit in children with diarrhea

　　 Pediatric diarrhea is a group of diseases mainly caused by diarrhea caused by multiple causes. It is characterized by an increase in the frequency of bowel movements. At the same time, some children will also have symptoms such as fever, vomiting, abdominal pain, and even varying degrees of water and electrolyte disorders and acid. Disturbance of alkali balance and other conditions. The pathogens of diarrhea are mostly viruses, bacteria, toxic Escherichia coli, hemorrhagic Escherichia coli, and invasive Escherichia coli. In addition, extra-intestinal infections, abuse of antibiotics, improper feeding, and climate influences can all induce this disease.

　　Rotavirus is the "culprit" that induces diarrhea in young children in summer, and the main route of transmission is feces-oral cavity. Toddlers infected with rotavirus will have persistent fever and vomiting symptoms, which seriously affect the physical development of the children. Another common bacteria that causes diarrhea in young children is Escherichia coli. Escherichia coli is spread through food intake. This bacteria likes to parasitize cooked food and milk. Children ingest these foods, it is very likely to happen Infection induced diarrhea.

The most important thing to prevent dehydration

　　 From a global perspective, more than 4 million infants and young children die from diarrhea in developing countries each year, and about 60% of the children who die are due to dehydration. Therefore, preventing dehydration from diarrhea in young children is particularly critical. It is medically recommended that in addition to oral medical rehydration, children can also be given rice soup, noodle soup and plain water.

　　Here are several ways to make oral liquids. ⑴ Sugar brine: 500 ml of purified water, 10 g of white sugar and 1.75 g of fine salt, boil and let the child take it after cooling. ⑵ Rice soup with salt oral liquid: 500 ml of rice soup with 1.75 g of fine salt, boil it and let the child take it orally; use 25 g of fried rice noodles with 1.75 g of fine salt and 500 ml of purified water, boil and let cool Taken by children.

　　Although dehydration is very common in children with diarrhea, 90% or more of the children are mildly or moderately dehydrated, which will not endanger the lives of the children. Children with severe dehydration need immediate intravenous rehydration, especially when the child vomits after taking the rehydration fluid. It is no longer possible to correct the dehydration symptoms through oral rehydration. Only intravenous rehydration can quickly correct the child. Hypovolemic shock and electrolyte disturbance.

Drugs for pathogens

　　 In clinical treatment, for bacterial infectious diarrhea and clinically for different pathogens, high-efficiency narrow-spectrum antibiotics are used to eliminate pathogens, which can also avoid destroying normal intestinal flora. If necessary, a bacterial susceptibility test can also be carried out, and sensitive antibiotics can be selected.

　　Many domestic drugs now contain montmorillonite octahedrons, which have strong adsorption and fixation effects on bacteria, viruses and the toxins they produce, bile salts, etc., and can also promote significant intestinal mucosal gel in children. With thickening and prolonged survival time, the mucosa will also increase, remodeling the damaged mucosal barrier of children, protecting the top of the intestinal bacteria and the intercellular bridge from damage, so that the damaged cells can be fully repaired.

Life prevention is very important

　　 In order to prevent children from suffering from diarrhea, parents should pay attention to managing their children’s food hygiene in their daily lives. The food for children must be clean and fresh. Tableware and milk utensils used by children must be regularly boiled and disinfected to educate children. Do personal hygiene and get into the habit of washing hands before meals and after going to the toilet.

　　Strengthen children's outdoor exercises and activities to improve body immunity. Younger babies and toddlers should be taken care of more carefully, and their clothes, diapers, etc. must be changed frequently; wash the buttocks with warm water after each bowel movement, and absorb the moisture in the buttocks to prevent the child from catching a cold; if so Baby girls should also pay attention to the hygiene of the child’s perineum to prevent ascending urinary tract infections. When taking care of the buttocks for young children, hand disinfection should also be done; clothing and quilts contaminated by young children’s feces must be disinfected to avoid cross-infection.

　　Children are weak in physique and have low immunity, and they are prone to diarrhea during the season when the disease is high. Parents of children must pay attention to daily nursing work to reduce the probability of infection of children.

 　　How do animals view death? The elephant seems to know what death is all about. When a companion falls down, they will arch it with their noses to help it stand up. If it still doesn't work, they know that the elephant is dead. After that, they will stay with their dead companions, as if in tribute, reluctant to leave for a long time. After the chimpanzee’s child died, even if the child’s body had shrivelled like a mummy, the mother still held it. Most animals know how to die.

　　"I'm going to die soon?" They might feel the breath of death. Animal hearing and smell are much sharper than humans, and sometimes we can feel strange things that we can't notice.

　　A friend of mine is a veterinarian and also an animal photographer. He told me something like this: A zebra infected with an infectious disease seems to send out messages like "Kill me" and "eat me". Upon receiving this message, the lion chooses its hunting target. . If it spreads infectious bacteria in the zebra herd, the entire zebra herd will die. If the infected zebra does not die sooner, the zebra herd will be in trouble. If it died earlier, the virus would not spread to the entire zebra herd. Therefore, hunting animals can prevent the virus from spreading to the entire zebra herd by eating the zebra with the infectious disease.

　　In the world of wild animals, everyone is fulfilling their role with due diligence.

　　It is said that wild animals live in a world where the weak and the strong eat the most. But is this really the case? It was just a casual sigh after humans observed the relationship between each species. "The strong hunter lion" and the "weak prey zebra" do seem to conform to the logic of the strong eating of the weak, but they are not. The lion and zebra just form a reasonable chain of life and death, and this does not mean that one of them is strong and the other is weak. The so-called "king of beasts" is nothing but a title imposed by people. Lions in nature are not so majestic, they will die if they are sick, and they will starve to death if they cannot catch food. They are equally focused and humble in life. I have been to the savannas of Africa, but I think that the hordes of zebras are more elegant than lions.

　　Nature is based on ecological balance. If there are no carnivores playing the role of hunters, the number of herbivores will increase blindly, and eventually all the plants will be eaten up, and the party that originally played the prey will become extinct. Therefore, hunters who are responsible for maintaining balance have a very important task.

　　The hunter in Hokkaido, the wolf, has been extinct due to the hunting of humans, and there are no more animals left. As a result, the herd of deer in Hokkaido has exploded, and now the forests, grasslands, and fields have been gnawed into a barren, very desolate.

　　After traveling around the world and seeing wild animals all over the world, I thought that maybe death without human interference is correct. Whether it is the savanna of Africa, the tropical Amazon rainforest, the severe cold of Siberia, or Japan-the growth and death of all natural creatures should conform to the laws of nature and not be disturbed by any external factors.

 　　Which love partner did you meet? What is thinking in the lover's heart? How to deal with him... These puzzles are like the Da Vinci code, which must always haunt you in love. Starting in 2021, your new girlfriend "Bright Eyes to Know People" column will accompany you to teach you how to recognize people. A lecture every month will help you become a master of love and marriage.

　　Some time ago, the news that a certain wealthy son "kneeled and licked" the internet celebrity was unwilling to tear up the news, which shocked many netizens: How could the noble son, who is in this way, also be so humble to please others?

　　But with the development of the situation, we have discovered another layer of truth: sometimes, those so-called "likes" and "please" seem to be just to control the other party or achieve a certain purpose of oneself.

　　A netizen opened a post about her own experience. She has a target and she usually pleases her in various ways: invite her to dinner, chat with her, and even if she is angry or emotional, she will just smile and talk softly. On the day of "5·20", the man took the initiative to send her a red envelope to show her love and invite her to dinner. She also happily agreed, but she did not expect to be pulled directly to the hotel entrance after she was full of food and drink. Seeing the straight eyes of the man who wanted to invite her to spend a good night, the girl felt puzzled. Why did she get to this point?

　　But the man is even more puzzled: "I have been responsive to you for a month, and I have to please you, and you have received the red envelope. Isn't it possible to make this step?" The girl almost vomited blood: "Big brother, you are willing to treat me well. , Do I have to give back with my body?”

　　This is the typical performance of a "pleasant" type straight man in love: if you pay, you must have a corresponding return. Love is a transaction of one thing for one thing, and it must be balanced. Otherwise, turn your face.

　　There is also a kind of "to please", which is actually to cover up inferiority. Zhang Ting is the kind of beautiful girl who walks down the street with a high rate of turning heads, but her boyfriend Tang Qi is short and plain. Tang Qi’s family is very wealthy. He felt that he must cherish such a beautiful girl, so he took her to consume Cartier today and the International Trade Buffet tomorrow. However, after being spoiled as a princess for a while, Zhang Ting still feels a bit boring. She likes confident men. Although Tang Qi has met her material needs, she feels that he is inferior in his bones. I want her to look at him high.

　　Zhang Ting's friend Lin Na also has a similar bitterness, and the boy she is currently acquainted with is simply "Mr. Vinono" in capitals. When going out to order food, he never had his own opinion, "listen to you", "you can arrange it"; when conflicts arise, he always apologizes, and sometimes Linna feels that he is too much, and he also looks like aggrieved. , But even if he can't explain it, he also refuses other in-depth exchanges. Look, people who like to please others don't necessarily get the phrase "you are so nice".

　　So when facing a relationship, how do we distinguish the other party's kindness and harmlessness? Which kind of courtesy is full of purpose, and even implies various problems?

　　If he likes to buy gifts to please you, but he doesn’t ask for it in return; he will ask for your opinion on many things, but he also has his own opinion and is willing to make his own decisions; he loves you, but he is also very principled, breaking the law and discipline, Never do things that touch the bottom line; he can take care of himself while taking care of you, and he won’t be overly wronged or sacrifice his feelings in exchange for your happiness... In short, he makes you happy, it must be Based on your own comfort, there is no problem with such "pleasing".

　　But if his "pleasure" has the following symptoms, you need to be vigilant:

　　1. He is afraid to say his inner thoughts. When he is together, he is afraid that he will be dismissed by you if he speaks his own thoughts. He is worried that he will not be accepted by you, and he is even more afraid of your doubts and denials, so he simply chooses to shut up.

　　2. He likes to take the initiative to apologize for everything. A moderately active apology is of course a virtue, but everything is true, he is actually suppressing his feelings. Such an apology is not sincere, but a kind of flattery.

　　3. He always caters deliberately, but doesn't know how to refuse. He is always worried that you are upset, but forgets his emotions. Because I want to accompany you, I gave up what I like. He cares about how he looks in your eyes, so he must deliberately cater to it. He himself is also under tremendous psychological pressure invisibly.

　　4. He is reluctant to please. He does spend time, energy, and money for the relationship, but wherever he wants to be, he will use his "graciousness" as a bargaining chip, asking you to meet his needs, or overemphasizing his efforts, making you feel guilty and treat him Words follow the plan. His "pleasure" is not to make you happy, but to please himself.

　　Some are pleased, healthy and comfortable; some are pleased, harm others and self. I hope that when your one comes to you, he holds flowers and the smile on his face comes from the bottom of my heart.