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The least worth maintaining

   When I was in the fourth grade, one evening, when I came home from school, I saw a brand new mountain bike at the door. My father smiled and said to me: "This is for you!"

  The life of riding a stroller is finally over! I was very happy and immediately put down my schoolbag and rode it out of the yard. Both my father and mother told me to ride slower. Although I told them aloud that I would, as soon as I rode on the road, I immediately put my parents' words behind my head-the feeling of riding a mountain bike is really wonderful.

  There are few people on the roads in the community, and nothing prevents me from riding fast. At an intersection, I planned to turn right and ride towards the court, but when I turned the corner, I was taken aback. My neighbor, Mrs. Galila, was coming from the opposite side. The rose tree on the side of the road grew too high and too lush, and I didn't see her at all before turning. I didn’t have time to brake, and ran into Mrs. Garila in panic. Fortunately, Mrs. Garila didn’t fall. My wheel rushed to her crotch and her hands pressed tightly against the front of my car.

  Go on... "Hey, kid, you need to ride slower!" Mrs. Garila said with a smile.

  "It's not my fault, Mrs. Jalila, look at these rose trees. They are too tall and too lush. They block my sight." I said, "What's more, why are you walking among these rose trees? What about next to you? That way, people can’t see you, you can’t walk like this anymore.”

  Mrs. Garila looked at me in a daze, then she shook her head and walked away... After

  I played on the court for a long time When it was dark, I rode my bicycle back home, and I said to my father very proudly: "Father, do you know? I just said Mrs. Garilah speechlessly!"

  "What happened to her? But a good person!" Father said.

  "Just now I ran into Mrs. Galila while turning a corner. She asked me to ride a little bit slower, but I told her that it was all because the rose trees were too lush and blocked my view, and I blamed her for not Walking next to the rose tree, she was speechless by me!" I said with a laugh.

  "Child, you made two mistakes. The first mistake was to ride a bicycle too fast, but this is just a small mistake. As long as you can sincerely apologize, others will forgive you, but you have chosen to maintain the mistake and put everything into account. They are all shunned to the rose tree and Mrs. Kalila. You think that Mrs. Kalila was speechless by you. It is just that she is disappointed in you. In Mrs. Kalila’s eyes, you are unwilling to admit your mistakes. People!" Father shook his head and said, "Child, you must remember that mistakes are the least worthy of maintenance in the world. The more you maintain, the greater your mistakes will be."

  "Father, now I should How to do it?" I began to regret, and I hope I can make up for it. My father encouraged me and said: "Child, as long as you are sincere enough, you will think of a way!"

  I thought for a long time, and finally I went to Mrs. Galila's house. , When Mrs. Kalila came out to open the door for me, I said to her: "Mrs. Kalila, I'm really sorry. It was all my fault just now. I apologize to you and please accept my apology."

  Mrs. Kalila She laughed haha, she put me in her arms and said, "Little guy, I accept your apology, and I want to tell you that I am proud of you!" Since

  then, Mrs. Garila and I have always been good neighbors. , And still good friends.

  Mistakes are the least worth maintaining thing in the world! I am very grateful to my father for telling me this sentence. Things in the world are really wonderful. When you keep on defending your mistakes, the mistakes you make will get bigger and bigger, and you will get bored more and more; and as long as you dare to admit your mistakes and correct them, The mistakes you make are no longer important, and you can even win the favor and trust of more people.


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