Feel sorry

 　　In life, everyone will encounter some regrets. For example: did not enter the ideal university, did not find a satisfactory job, did not meet the ideal partner, and had no use for a skill... It can be seen that there are many types of regrets. Perhaps it is with some regrets that life will be full of ups and downs, passionate and colorful!

　　If you are a human being, you will not be without regrets. There is no one in the world who does not have regrets. People often take off their masks and show their true self only after letting go of all the regrets in their hearts. Du Mu is full of talent, suave, casual, romantic in poetry and wine, but his marriage left him with unforgettable regret and pain. Nalan Xingde, the most influential lyricist in the Qing Dynasty, was born with a lonely and sad heart. "Cheng Reminiscence" expresses the biggest regret in his life: he wrongly persists in fame and fame; he gives up easily in love.

　　It is not terrible to have regrets in life, but what is terrible is that if you indulge in regrets and cannot extricate yourself, you will have new regrets, you will sink negatively, you will be pessimistic and world-weary, and you will be overwhelmed by regrets. The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys and sorrows. Regret is like a storm. The brave develop a strong body, a tenacious style, and a strong fighting spirit in the storm; The road of a person's life cannot be smooth sailing. There are both flat roads and rough roads. The rough and rough road is difficult, and it takes a lot of effort, and even a lifetime to fight for it. It will make the brave stumble and the coward retreat. After falling, some can get up, but some can't get up. For those who cannot get up, regrets arise.

　　Regret is like a rope for climbing a ladder. The brave use it to cross obstacles, overcome difficulties, and climb the peak; "Those who do not seek change will succeed, and those who do not seek refuge will enter." Every regret will leave an unforgettable memory in the journey of life, a stunning moment, and even a strong stroke. Sometimes, regret is like a mirror, which can reflect a person's character, ability, and heart, and can reflect the advantages and disadvantages of a person's foothold in society, conduct in the world, and rebirth from adversity. The brave will think calmly, accumulate experience, learn lessons, find out the reasons and shortcomings, and set goals for struggle; the cowardly will resent the mirror, feel sorry for the mirror, and worry about the mirror...

　　Regret is a sugar wrapped in bitterness, and sweetness is its aftertaste. Li Bai's career was not going well all his life, and the fate of Li Bai, who was repeatedly excluded, was bitter. However, his pride of "five-flowered horses, thousands of gold, and Hu'er will be exchanged for fine wine", "An Neng can smash his eyebrows and bend his waist to serve the powerful and powerful, made me unhappy. How many literati and inkmen have yearned for the free and easy "Yan"; Tao Yuanming's resignation is regrettable, but how many people have been moved by his elegance of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely" . They threw away the bitter cloak and tasted the sweetness behind the regret, and their lives became beautiful and extraordinary because of this.

　　Some people always feel sorry for the wrong things they have done, and regret it. However, these are all things of the past, and it is useless to complain. Only when a person understands regrets and learns how to treat and deal with regrets, can he reduce many regrets in his life. In the face of regret, we must use a resolute character, a brave style, the courage to fear hardships and hardships, and the bloody spirit that is not afraid of bloodshed and sacrifice. Be a man, do things in a down-to-earth manner, work hard, work hard, do not slacken, and worship regrets as teachers. Only by embracing one regret after another and making up for one regret after another can one go through one regret after another.

　　Sometimes, regret can also be a kind of advantage, a kind of beauty beyond the norm. This kind of beauty is more desirable and attractive to pursue. A teenager with a crippled left arm asked a coach for wrestling lessons, and the coach just asked him to repeat a movement. In a game, he unexpectedly won the championship. Puzzled, he asked his coach for advice. The coach told him that the only way to break the trick was to grab the opponent's left arm, which is exactly what the coach taught him.

　　That's right, everyone has a string of regrets behind them, and most regrets can't stop the progress of life. As long as we try to be a happy person and think more about happy things, we will have fewer regrets.