Late into the night, lying down to prepare for bed, habitually open the circle of friends to browse, I saw my friend A Lai sent a dynamic: "My life, always a little short."
Out of concern, I sent a message over: "What's wrong with you brother?" A Lai: "Today my wife and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau, ready to sign the divorce papers, suddenly thought of my parents, thought of the children, so I backtracked."
Then, Ah Lai sent a series of sighs: "At first I was almost able to enter the ideal university, looking for a job and almost to stay in the desired unit, and then in partnership with others in business, but also almost made a fortune, and yesterday was almost divorced ...... you say how my life always a little worse?"
For a while, I didn't know how to answer Alai's question, nor did I know how to comfort him, but simply replied, "Who's life is not a little worse! Everything has to look forward." And then attached an emoji of a hug.
I put down my phone, but I could not sleep, my mind kept thinking about the "almosts" of Ah Lai, and also about the "almosts" of my own past. I don't understand how many "almosts" there are in the adult world. The most important thing is to have a good understanding of the situation.
Some people say that the ideal life is to live the way you like. In fact, many people's life, sometimes this "almost", that and "almost", and then in the "almost" again and again, gradually become worse and worse. Eventually a chicken feather. So "a little", sometimes you can have a completely different life.
Wise people, each time a "little" gap brought about by the pain, as a "flavor" of the seasoning, and then strive to improve themselves, every day a little progress, and constantly reduce the distance between themselves and the ideal. In the long run, he will progress a thousand miles, life more and more perfect; and confused people, each time a "little" gap brought about by the blow, as bad luck, and to excuse themselves. In the long run, this little bit will become his ideal and reality between the insurmountable gulf, their lives will be worse and worse.
In fact, many times, many things, are just "a little bit", as long as they work a little bit more, push themselves a little bit, perhaps you can succeed, but many people are not willing to solve the "little bit" of this problem, the result is to miss the fate, missed opportunities, the loss of the "opportunity to fight" ......
Of course, once in a while, "a little", can not be considered a regret, but a hope. Imagine, if a person wants to do all the things done, to achieve all want to achieve, but will be no fun, meaningless. So the occasional "almost" is actually proof that we still have room for improvement, and there is hope for life. Of course, the premise is that you do not want to "wait". If you keep waiting for the opportunity, keep waiting, then "a little bit" becomes a permanent regret, there is no chance to change.
In fact, it is not that the world is not friendly enough, it is not that luck is always worse than others, and it is not that there is no hope in life, but our action is not timely enough, sweat is not enough, confidence is not enough. If we say that the ideal life is out of reach, we can not talk about regret. But if "almost" can have, can be achieved, but they did not work hard, is the biggest regret in life.
If you are still complaining about the "little bit" in your life, you should start acting now. Turn the "little bit" in life into "a little bit more" in life.