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Source of happiness

   In the spring of one year, penguins, kangaroos, and antelopes all encountered misfortunes in their lives. The penguin lost three children, the kangaroo lost a leg, and the antelope had a heart attack.

  Everyone sympathized with penguins, kangaroos, and antelopes, and felt that life was too unfair to them. The wild boar said: "If the child is gone, this life will be boring." The rabbit said: "If you lose a leg, you will become disabled. The shadow in your heart cannot be erased." The wild dog said: "Suffering from heart disease, life is in danger at any time. It is really difficult to live this day." The

  mountain god specially found penguins, kangaroos, and antelopes and encouraged them to say that they must learn to be strong and overcome their unfortunate fate.

  What everyone admires is that penguins, kangaroos and antelopes are able to face misfortune stubbornly. Their lives are not as miserable as everyone thinks. In fact, they lived very happily and happily.

  Penguin felt very sad after losing three children. However, it quickly came out of grief. It thought, since the facts cannot be changed, then accept it calmly and embrace a happy life in another way. As a result, it adopted three abandoned little penguins. Penguin feels a sense of accomplishment and pride. They take care of each other, support each other, and enjoy themselves. Everyone feels that life is so comfortable and beautiful.

  After the kangaroo lost a leg, he was extremely disappointed. However, it quickly emerged from the loss. It thought, since the lost leg cannot be recovered, it simply accepts the fact that there is only one leg. Can still walk on crutches. It feels that although it has lost a leg, it is much luckier than the animal that has lost both legs. So it quickly adapted to the way of walking on crutches. It also worked hard on the one-leg long jump. In the Disabled Animal Games, it won the championship of single-leg long jump many times, and won countless flowers and applause.

  After the antelope had a heart attack, he was very surprised. However, through the implementation of rehabilitation treatment and exercise, it found that heart disease is not terrible. I can coexist with heart disease safely. As a result, it frankly accepted the "uninvited guest" of heart disease. Its life is still full of happy green and sunshine. It often goes to a green meadow and eats the green grass leisurely. After eating, find a place with a good view to bask in the sun and listen to the birds singing.

  One day, the mountain god suddenly thought of the unfortunate penguins, kangaroos and antelopes. He wanted to find them one by one, and asked them how they faced their unfortunate fate. At the same time, further encourage them to overcome the misfortune in life and destiny.

  When the mountain gods found them, seeing their joy and happiness, he dispelled the idea of ​​mentioning the "unfortunate fate" again.

  Obviously, the mountain gods found the answer from their hot days.

  The mountain god murmured: "They are the strong among animals. When the facts cannot be changed, they choose to change themselves. The demeanor and pursuit of the strong are the source of happiness."

  Facing the accidents and misfortunes in life Since the facts cannot be changed, it is wise to learn to accept it happily. If you keep fighting with yourself, you will let the good times go to waste.



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